You're just a glass half full kinda guy. From where I'm sitting, things look spectacular for marriage equality. Within a couple of years there will be more states falling in line with the Constitution and honoring the 14th Amendment, plus I'm betting Section II of DOMA will be gone and the anti gay states won't matter. This is even if the SCOTUS never hears a case on a state's anti gay marriage law.
Geez, all you have to do is look at the trend in the last for years to know its not looking good for the haters and homophobes.
Ten years ago I would have shrugged and argued to replace the term marriage in federal and state laws with civil unions, and or argued to make the term marriage inclusive of civil unions in the eyes of the law. Now however, after further review, I'm on the side of an amendment, an act of congress extending civil rights laws, or a SCOTUS decision that ensures the right to life and liberty covers the right to marriage for all citizens irregardless of sexual orientation. The bigotry against gays needs to go the way of the bigotry against blacks. Just because the majority can act like a tyrant does not justify the tyrannical acts said majority wields on minority groups.
I used to be a bigot against gays. Then I was one of those that claimed I wasn't and likened to giving them any rights to allowing incest and sex with donkeys.
When I gave all of that nonsense I found that treating them the same and giving them the rights and respect they deserve is so much easier to carry. And made many a new friend along the way.
If a southern bred straight country boy done good like me can come around anyone can.
And that is my mission here. If JUST ONE changes like I did my work has been done.