So you invite me into you house to discuss things but then tell me what I can say. Does not sound like a discussion but rather a safe space snowflake back patting session.
I invite you into my house to discuss things with all of my other guests. I don't tell you what you can say, but if you insult my other guests, treat them disrespectfully, and threaten them, I'm going to throw your ass out the door, because you cannot insult, berate and disrespect the rest of the people who are there, and start fights with them