ricechickie
Gold Member
It IS a bit much, but what does a teacher do if it's happening in his or her classroom?
The way I read this, a child was identifying as the other gender, and brought in the books to the teacher. Ideally, I would have wanted to draft a letter to parents explaining the situation warning them that their children will have questions, and I wonder why that wasn't done. What I wonder is if there was some kind of privacy issue with the child and her family.
Although, once the child started dressing and identifying as the other gender, it becomes pretty obvious who it is.
Bottom line, this should have been discussed with parents, so they could address the situation at home. Of course, the transgender child in question still deserves every bit of support a school community can give, regardless of your personal opinion.
there is zero reason for parents to give into a 5 year old when it comes to pretty much anything, wanting to be another gender included. It is done under the misguided principle that this will help them later on, but all it does is open up confusion and questions that really shouldn't be dealt with by anyone before puberty. Once they hit that, let them figure it out, and once they hit 18 let a psychologist decide if they actually have a gender dysphoria that only surgery can correct.
As a teacher, I would have no say in how the parents dealt with their own child. As a teacher, it would be my responsibility to consider the whole class and how to best ease that transition.
As a teacher, I'd expect you to teach facts not some fantasy that someone can do something that simply can't be done.
Ok, these are the facts.
This student prefers to be referred to as a girl. This makes this student more comfortable. This student's parents and doctor(s) recommend that we refer to her as a girl and call her the name she prefers. It's respectful to do so.
All fact.