I was responding to your one, inane comment about "sponsoring sexual behavior" I'm not arguing the law with you at this point. That is clearly a dead end. It's apparent that you will not own up to truth about your underlying attitude towards gay people. You cant see the issue in human terms.
And all you've done is make bigoted assumptions about me. Now you seek to imply or infer those assumptions onto me by claiming that I am being dishonest about my true views.
First of all, I don't need to prove anything to you. I don't need to defend myself by telling you how many gay friends I have or what my sentiments are toward homosexuality. You are not my moral judge, you don't get a vote. Second, it doesn't bother me to be attacked with the PC meme about "attitude toward gays" because I am comfortable with my attitude.
Finally, I am the one who sees marriage in human terms, you are the one who advocates the legal terms. I support marriage being defined by the individual and not government. You support marriage as defined by the court to ensure some protection from a perception of inequity under the law.
From MY perspective, you are really no different than some radical religious wacko telling me my 'marriage' can ONLY be to a Christian woman who doesn't wear makeup and attends church on Wednesdays and Sundays and the only "sex" I can have is in the government-approved missionary position. I don't want you telling me these things! Not through government or the court! Understand?
Yes, I know, bigots always try to turn it around and call me a bigot- that is called projection . I am not making any assumptions at all about you. I am reading what you have written, and it is all quite clear. You are indeed being dishonest. You do not even have the integrity to admit to what you are. I would have slightly more respect for you if you would just be truthful instead of constructing an elaborate scheme about how marriage can be abolished while lying about your motives. Yes I see marriage in legal terms because it is the legal rights that ensures human rights. Don’t try to tell me that you care about the legal or the human rights of gays.
You started this thread for the purpose of railing against gay marriage. From the beginning you have been on a crusade to deny gays the right to marry and the benefits that go with it. It is clear that you see gays as flawed and fundamentally different, and underserving of the same rights and benefits as others. Let’s look at some of the highlights from your rants:
From the OP
Is my idea an unconventional strategy? Perhaps, but there are not many options remaining if we hope to get rid of this atrocious SCOTUS ruling. There isn't enough support to adopt a Constitutional Amendment and prohibition amendments don't historically last anyway.
“atrocious SCOTUS ruling” ? And, you would support a constitutional amendment to ban same sex marriage, which you insist on calling homosexual marriage-if you thought that you could.
Also from the OP
What the giddy left has not come down off their clouds enough to realize is how much vehement opposition is out there, who have no intention of accepting this as a "norm" of society
Vehement opposition? Really? It’s pretty quiet around here. No demonstrations, no riots. Among the defendants in Obergefell, there was not even the motivation to file a motion to rehear the case as the law allows within 25 days. The “vehement opposition is on the part of a small number of homophobic religious right bigots, and the voices in your head.
More from the OP
Heterosexuals, you have to believe, are not supporting it because homosexuality appeals to them personally, it is because there has been a perceived discrimination and inequity presented. This denial of actual discrimination is something that you repeat several times more.
And you sanctimoniously declare
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Now, what they have been denied is same-sex marriage licenses, which curiously didn't exist because marriage is the union of a man and woman.
And ask:
After all, if there is no benefit to marriage from government, what is the point for homosexuals?
(This is repeated again in post 44)This really strikes a nerve and speaks clearly to your pejorative viw of gay people. What is the point for anyone then? Are you suggesting that gay folks only want to marry for those government bennies. Are you saying that they do not marry for a variety of reasons-such as love, companionship, social status-like other people?
In # 84 you
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I reserve the right to raise an issue with it. Anyone who has followed me on this issue knows I've advocated for a Civil Unions solution for years, in order to resolve this issue and get government unattached to the institution of marriage once and for all. No one wanted to listen and now we have this ruling making gay marriage a constitutional right.
Really? How is supporting civil unions over marriage for gays NOT discrimination. Civil unions are not equal to marriage, as I have explained to you. And again here you lament the SCOTUS ruling on marriage. But no, you’re not a bigot.
You claim that there is no law that discriminates on the basis of sexuality, but who the **** do you think all of those state bans on same sex marriage are aimed at, and who is the target of all of this religious discrimination crap ?
You idiotically claimed that it is permissible for adoption agencies to discriminate against gay people, and had nothing to say in your own defense when I called you on it.
You have said Gay marriage is not real marriage/ It is a man and a woman. But no! You’re not a bigot. That is if you think that you can treat others differently, or advocate treating them differently-just because you disapprove of them and see them as inferior- is not bigotry. And same the crap about wanting to abolish state sanctioned marriage for everyone because we know why you want to do that and you believe that straight and traditional people will continue to get married but somehow gays will not. You have admitted as much but no, you not a bigot. We are done here bubba.