Since it can now be two grooms, two brides, or a mixture, by law, it's time to update the forms. We do that you know, change from time to time as life changes.
As any educated person can guess where this is going...the distinction is needed not only for the offensiveness of referring to a man as "wife" or woman as "husband"...but also to the adoption issue. The different licenses will tell agencies which people will provide the vital mother/father needs for both boys and girls and which people will not.
Children are coming up in this topic. Like it or not. They had no representation of their unique enjoyments of the marriage contract in the revision-Hearing last Spring (Obergefell). Contract law demands all parties to a contract be present. It was a mistrial.