No, you nitwit. I'm saying that men who are only sexually attracted to multiple women are probably rare. In other words, if they see one woman, they find no attraction. If you want to claim polygamy is a sexual orientation, then a person who had an orientation of polygamy would not be attracted to a single partner....
Playing word games.. OK. I'll play.,,,So if you use an anus as an artificial vagina, does that mean you are not gay? And if a lesbian uses a dildo or a strapon, does that mean she or her partner are not gay? Let's just put it this way. If your "sexual orientation" male members can use an anus as an artificial vagina and its female members crave dildos and strapon dicks, it is as legitimate to call theirs a sexual orientation "homosexual", as it is to call a man craving sex with multiple women a polyamorous-orientation....So now in the interest of fair play, we've found them both to be sexual orientations, Obergefell applies equally to both of them; or any other sexual orientation that likes to legitimately or illegitimately label itself as such.
As usual, it's clear you don't understand what the hell you are talking about.
I'm pretty sure you do know what I'm talking about. If a hetero dude was asking his girlfriend to wear men's clothes and do him in the ass with a strapon dildo on a regular basis....I'm pretty sure your cult would know exactly what I'm talking about. CLOSETED issues. In other words a gray area as to a solid sexual orientation. So your assertion is that "homosexuals deserve a monopoly on the phrase "sexual orientation". And you go to great lengths to disqualify others based on this or that nitpicking detail that supposedly claims they "don't quite measure up".
Meanwhile "gays" and "lesbians" don't quite measure up either. So if one illegitimately claims "sexual orientation!!" by self-description, what makes it more legally binding than a guy claiming his natural sexual attraction to more than one woman at a time; and his lifestyle born from that (his "intimate choice-Obergefell 2015)? The answer is it doesn't. They are both equally viable as "solid sexual orientations".
So, having established that, how will your ilk suddenly become Emily Post and deny polygamy? Because "it's icky"? Because it's 'bad for the kids involved!'....?
Where in anything I said do you get "homosexuals deserve a monopoly on the phrase "sexual orientation""?...I don't disqualify others based on nitpicking detail, unless you consider the definition of sexual orientation to be a nitpicking detail. ...You can say that sexual attraction to more than one woman at a time is a sexual orientation all you want, that doesn't make it true. Perhaps more importantly, even if it were true, it is not the same thing as polygamy....
But homosexual men using another guy's anus as an artificial vagina has gray area issues with a firm definition of sexual orientation as "homosexual". Likewise with lesbians using dildos...gray area.. Then suddenly when a man expresses an orientation towards muliple women (or he doesn't feel sexually satisfied), suddenly you insist on a distinct and discriminating definition.
If gays can self-describe as being oriented a certain way sexually, so can anyone else.