I understand the psychology. I grew up surrounded by democrats, then went on to acquire a fair understanding of psychology.
Leftists are about as mentally rigid and predictable as a wind-up toy.
Next time there is an opportunity and the subject emerges, simply counter with: "There is more to that, Honey, if you are ever willing to hear the other side of the story, we can talk about it." Then leave it up to her to approach YOU.
It might take years, but eventually she will.
Most people's brain eventually mature and grow up.