Zone1 I've Reached That Point Where I Have To Place My Wife In A Assisted Living Facility Focusing On Memory Treatment

[mudwhistle]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

 

[Leo123]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

You have my prayers and bless you for taking care of your wife. You have my profound respect. Hang in there. Caretaking takes it's toll stay healthy.

 

[Harry Dresden]

sorry to hear that mud.....

 

[Rambunctious]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

I had to find a place for my mother God rest her soul so I know a bit of what you are up against... I'm so sorry to hear this and I will keep you in my prayers...

 

[Maxdeath]

I am very sorry for both you and your wife. Best of luck to you

 

[rightwinger]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

Good luck to you both

 

[Oddball]

Well, that sure sucks...Best of luck to both you and the missus.

 

[Rambunctious]

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[Rambunctious]

If you ever need to vent or talk you can come to us Mud.....

 

[MarathonMike]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

So sorry to read this. I dealt with my mother's mental deterioration in her final years. It's good your wife is in a safe place set up to deal with her conditions.

 

[strollingbones]

i am so sorry to hear that...you are beginning a hard long road...my mother lasted 10 years with dementia ...

best wishes for you both...remember its one day at a time and i am sorry to say this....one day you will walk in and she will not know you....the shock will tear at you...

 

[mudwhistle]

You have my prayers and bless you for taking care of your wife. You have my profound respect. Hang in there. Caretaking takes it's toll stay healthy.

I had to retire from Civil Service to care for her since 2019.
4 years as of the 1st of November.

 

[strollingbones]

seems a few of us have gone thru this and i assure you mudd we will be more emphatic than you may expect....i am so sorry you are going thru this...my husband is facing this now...i have never seen him feel so hopeless

 

[strollingbones]

I had to retire from Civil Service to care for her since 2019.

she is a few years older than you...and its good you can drop by often...that makes the staff pay more attention

 

[Lastamender]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

I hope the best for you both. That is tough.

 

[skye]

Hope everything turns out well for you and you wife.

 

[Natural Citizen]

It's going to cost me roughly $4000/mo to put my wife in a clean and safe facility so that she can live out her last years in an environment that is conducive for her health and mine.

Today I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack.

I think I've found a place about 3 miles away from my house. A place I've driven by often.

We'll see how everything turns out.....but I'm just about at the end of my rope.

I'm sorry to hear that, Mudwhistle. Hang in there, man.

 

[strollingbones]

do you have a dnr for her? a hard but necessary step

 

[Rocko]

I can’t imagine your pain. May God bless you and your wife.

 

[mudwhistle]

If you ever need to vent or talk you can come to us Mud.....

LOL!!!!

That's what I've been doing, Bubba.