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Let me tell kind of a long story.
My late husband was a lifelong opera-quality tenor and very patriotic Japanese-descended American even after what his family suffered in the wake of Pearl Harbor. In his later years, he got called to sing the National Anthem at large gatherings, and it was a very important part of his life.
When his dementia demanded that he get better care than I alone could provide, one of his first positive experiences in the care facility was when a local a capella vocal group came to entertain. At the end of their sing along, they asked everyone to sing the Star Spangled Banner, and my dear husband's voice rang loud and clear, turning heads. As I looked to see his reaction, I saw a tear in the eye of my normally stoic husband.
Now and then, even as his voice faded, we'd sing it together and as he lost his mind, the National Anthem remained one connection to the real world that stayed solid.
Thanks for listening.
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