Is It Moral for Married Couples to do Oral/Anal?

[Annie]

He did??? Maybe i should look into this sometime:

Can you afford the ring? Finish school, then get down to it!

 

[Joz]

It's counterintuitive, isn't it? God DID create a specific place on a woman's body to receive the man's... um... "manhood." Is it being greedy or misusing the body to want to insert the "manhood" into other areas? Or insert other things into a woman?

I think it's a perversion. The fact that tab A fits into slot B is for a reason. It just works out better the way it was designed.

I know one woman who said she "will take to the grave what her first husband did to her". She was merely a child of 15 when she got married, he was considerabll older. I think he was a pedophile, among other things. But this was some many years ago, before the laws we have now protecting children. Thing is, the mother should have stepped in, as the daughter told her, but she didn't.

There are ways that seemeth right to a man.......

 

[Annie]

I think it's a perversion. The fact that tab A fits into slot B is for a reason. It just works out better the way it was designed.

I know one woman who said she "will take to the grave what her first husband did to her". She was merely a child of 15 when she got married, he was considerabll older. I think he was a pedophile, among other things. But this was some many years ago, before the laws we have now protecting children. Thing is, the mother should have stepped in, as the daughter told her, but she didn't.

There are ways that seemeth right to a man.......

I'll admit that some positions have an Ewww factor I don't think I'd be able to overcome, but I'm not willing to step into the bedroom of those that feel differently. Now God, well I'll defer.

 

[jillian]

I'll admit that some positions have an Ewww factor I don't think I'd be able to overcome, but I'm not willing to step into the bedroom of those that feel differently. Now God, well I'll defer.

I'm with you on this one..... 100%.

Interestingly, the question asked about morality. It didn't ask about the Christian bible, necessarily. If there's respect and mutual agreement that doesn't demean anyone and mutual pleasure brought to the table, so to speak... then I think it's pretty much a matter of personal choice.

It is only immoral to hurt or diminish someone else, IMO. And while, like you said, there may be an ewwwwwwwwwww factor to some stuff, people's bedrooms are their own domaine. :halo:

 

[Joz]

like you said, there may be an ewwwwwwwwwww factor to some stuff, people's bedrooms are their own domaine. :halo:

Despite to "ewww" factor, this act is no more than "lusting after the flesh".
The fact that someone wants to screw their neighbor or the neighbor's dog is none of my business, either. Still doesn't make it right.

 

[jillian]

Despite to "ewww" factor, this act is no more than "lusting after the flesh".
The fact that someone wants to screw their neighbor or the neighbor's dog is none of my business, either. Still doesn't make it right.

But we're talking within a relationship, right? We're not talking about screwing the neighbor or the neighbor's dog.

I think lust is a healthy emotion.

And I need to add to that... I don't think there's anything immoral about sex for fun between two consenting adults. I really don't.

 

[OCA]

When the wife wants to blow me and God willing 1 day allows me the use of the 2nd door the last thing i'll be thinking about is morality......unbelievable that any guy here would have that on his mind if the wife gives the green light in either of those areas.

It is absolutely o friggin k for a MAN AND WOMAN, not same sex, to do whatever the hell brings them pleasure, that includes: anal, oral, watching porn together, toys of all kinds and what the hell, even though its not my style, a little spanky now and then.

Now as others have said already it can't be pleasure for one and extreme pain for the other, thats no good, oh and yes, my experience has been that there are plenty of gals who love a good buggering now and then.

Can't friggin believe I missed this thread up till now!

 

[Nuc]

NOT having oral sex with your spouse is, if not a "sin", definitely a mistake and kind of like, "why bother getting married?".

Anal sex is just a matter of taste, if both people like it, go for it.

 

[Gunny]

I'm with you on this one..... 100%.

Interestingly, the question asked about morality. It didn't ask about the Christian bible, necessarily. If there's respect and mutual agreement that doesn't demean anyone and mutual pleasure brought to the table, so to speak... then I think it's pretty much a matter of personal choice.

It is only immoral to hurt or diminish someone else, IMO. And while, like you said, there may be an ewwwwwwwwwww factor to some stuff, people's bedrooms are their own domaine. :halo:

Jeff's original post:

Inspired by a sidebar in the Are You Bron Gay thread:

Is it moral for a married couple to perform oral/anal sex with each other? Why or why not?

I say it is, because there are no prohibitions against married couples doing such things in Scripture, and they are two consenting adults.

 

[jillian]

Jeff's original post:

Yeah...and?

The question was whether it was moral. Jeff opined there was nothing about it in scripture. That doesn't exclude other input.

So there ya go.

 

[Gunny]

Yeah...and?

The question was whether it was moral. Jeff opined there was nothing about it in scripture. That doesn't exclude other input.

So there ya go.

As usual, you engage your mouth without benefit of consulting your brain first. This thread is an offshoot of another thread, and the argument was CLEARLY as to whether or not the Bible prohibited oral/anal sex between man and wife.

So there YOU go.

 

[Dr Grump]

As usual, you engage your mouth without benefit of consulting your brain first. This thread is an offshoot of another thread, and the argument was CLEARLY as to whether or not the Bible prohibited oral/anal sex between man and wife.

So there YOU go.

As usual, you engage your mouth without benefit of consulting your brain first. The second sentence in Jeff's original post asked the question, which is the point of the thread. The last sentence in his post was HIS answer, NOT part of the original question.

So there YOU go...

 

[jillian]

As usual, you engage your mouth without benefit of consulting your brain first. This thread is an offshoot of another thread, and the argument was CLEARLY as to whether or not the Bible prohibited oral/anal sex between man and wife.

So there YOU go.

While I know you'd like to keep all threads all Christian, all the time... believe it or not, many of us don't answer the question "what is moral" by quoting the bible. If that works for you, then fair enough... but guess what, not all of us see the world that way.

My brain engages just fine, thanks. :halo:

 

[Kagom]

While I know you'd like to keep all threads all Christian, all the time... believe it or not, many of us don't answer the question "what is moral" by quoting the bible. If that works for you, then fair enough... but guess what, not all of us see the world that way.

My brain engages just fine, thanks. :halo:

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to jillian again.

 

[jillian]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to jillian again.

thanks! it's the thought that counts!

 

[Mr. P]

Lets remember morals are NOT just a product of the Christian Religion alone.

EDIT: missed post 93. You said the same J, sorry.

 

[jillian]

Lets remember morals are NOT just a product of the Christian Religion alone.

That's all we're saying.

 

[Joz]

Well I guess I stand alone on this moral issue. But I do still stand on the fact that is a distorted sex act.

Even without the moral issue, I can't understand the appeal of having a d*ck shoved up your butt. I'm sorry, but I just don't see it. Nor if I had a d*ck would I especially want to put it there.
What is wrong in putting it where it was designed to go? And is this about the men having their anus penetrated?

 

[jillian]

Lets remember morals are NOT just a product of the Christian Religion alone.

EDIT: missed post 93. You said the same J, sorry.

no prob, Mr P. It's always good to have moral support.

 

[Gunny]

While I know you'd like to keep all threads all Christian, all the time... believe it or not, many of us don't answer the question "what is moral" by quoting the bible. If that works for you, then fair enough... but guess what, not all of us see the world that way.

My brain engages just fine, thanks. :halo:

Your irrelevant deflection via personal attack is hereby rejected.

I make a point of NOT using religion as a basis for my arguments. When the question concerns religion, any three years old could figure out that a response concerning religion would be appropriate.

Since this thread concerns morality, there really isn't anything for a liberal to say anyway. We all already know about the "if it feels good do it" mentality and the fact that you don't believe in moral consequence.

Now go find some of your peers in Romper Room to debate with.