Also speaking anecdotally, the parents that do it right (Organized fieldtrips, sports, organized play dates/outings) raise children who are totally normal socially. They also raise children who are outstanding academically.
The parents who do it terribly usually give up and dump their kids back into public schools that by law have to take them in. That makes it hard to realistically track and compare test scores as failed homeschooled children end up in the public school testing pool. As I said though, if you can do it and do it well, you should. If you can't, don't. I work with my kids in the summer with a pretty rigid schedule on math, reading and writing. The personal cost to me is that it tanks my productivity in the summer to do it and the kids hate it. There's no way I could keep that up in the school year and work full time. Moral of the story: It wouldn't work for me full year.
I wish we had some way to track how homeschooled children are doing, once they've been taken out of public school, but there is no money in the budget or time in the day for school personnel to track and follow these kids. I've seen the 'dark side' of homeschooling, as well, when parents pulled kids out of school after the school reported abuse or neglect, or because the kid didn't feel like going and the parents didn't feel like arguing about it, or because the parent couldn't get out of bed to get the kid on the bus in the morning. I've also met parents so ignorant they can barely write their name, claiming they are "homeschooling." That can't be stopped, for some reason, and it is unfair to our kids. I'm quite sure that back in the 80's, there were rules that you needed a bachelor's degree in order to homeschool. That was overkill, but no follow up whatsoever is really a problem for some kids who aren't getting any education at all.
Home schooled kids can also take the same standardized tests the government schooled kids do to ensure they're on track. There simply is no reason motivated parents cannot give their children a quality education at home.
Of course. I was worrying about the ones who
don't have motivated parents.
Generally speaking unmotivated parents are more likely to dump their kids in public school and not contribute anything to their education, rather than homeschooling them. wouldn't you agree?
In fact, that is EXACTLY why home schooled kids , on average, do better on standardized tests than public education students do. Because the lower tier of students, the ones who don't give a crap cuz their parents don't give a crap are in those public schools, not being homeschooled, and yet their test results are lumped in with the rest.
The fix for our public education system is so simple. A two tiered system. Trade bound, and college bound. And no mommy doesn't get to tell the school which track you're going in. Your grades and test results do that.
That further lowers the costs of college because all the kids who proved through their own achievements that they belong in the trade bound school are INELIGIBLE for Pell Grants and student loans to college.
Yes, I know to many that sounds harsh, but we are well into the point where we need to stop giving everything to everyone and where we need to start making some harsh choices.