Yup that makes sense, if you don't use your home much because of career demands might as well make it cheap but accessible. My wife and I also make effort to cut down on cost of living, everything can be evaluated as what it is worth in terms of what it provides vs. what it costs. My current struggle is cable TV, that shit is expensive and more and more having a good internet connection seems like a reasonable substitute.
I think you are lucky that your wife is on board. My wife does not seem to get any of my money saving ideas.
Vikrant, I'm sorry for you. These things are much easier as a joint project. The easiest way to save, we found out 39 years ago, is to not 'take' all of any pay raise into one's budgeting. That is, if you get a $25/month raise (or find a $25/month savings, same thing!), you put 1/2 of it directly into savings FIRST. Payroll deductions or whatever, so it never even gets into your bank account to begin with.
Even when I use coupons, I put 1/2 the savings in cash into a 'splurge jar' .... Maybe you don't think that's much, but I get about 25% or more off any grocery bill. I shop the 'scratch 'n' dent' shelves routinely in the supermarket just like I did when husband was an E-4 (he's since retired)......
We spend a ridiculous amount on cable/internet - but then we don't go out for drinks, or to the movies more than a couple of times a year. We record entire miniseries and invite friends over for a show and potluck party about once a month.....