Wake
Easygoing Conservative
- Jun 11, 2013
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What I don't understand are those people who seem to make it their mission in life to be rude, unpleasant, disruptive, insulting, or whatever method they choose to make somebody's life miserable. What do they get out of that? How does anybody feel better about themselves when they behave that way?
Eh, this is a touchy issue, and I'm trying to be as level-headed and general as possible.
If you routinely hurt others, it may make you feel good for a while, but over time it will eventually eat at you. Then you will want to feel better again, but will probably repeat the cycle. It's a vicious one. By making others feel miserable, you become as miserable as them or worse, especially when your conscience peeks out from behind the clouds.
Nobody is "level headed" all the time. NOBODY. Everyone can be mean at times. We are emotional creatures and, whether or not some of us want to admit it, we are ruled by emotions in most instances. They play a HUGE role in everything we do.
Please point where it was said that someone is level-headed all of the time. It is true that we can let our emotions get the best of us and say and do terrible things in our anger, our envy, and more. That is just one reason why some are uncivil towards others. Who is ruled by emotions and how often varies based on the individual. Those who knowingly are dishonest and wicked towards others is one issue I do address, because it is so toxic and contagious.
A lot of the statements and ideas shared I abhor, and I view them to be foolish and disagreeable. That doesn't give me the right to treat those people terribly. Annoying? Sure. It's better to have some self-control, and generally ignore those who don't.