I'm not talking about debating. I'm talking about general convos. Every time I ask Mr Gracie what he wants for dinner and he wants steak and I want chicken, we are not debating the pros and cons of each. We are discussing what each of us are in the mood for. If he wants steak..then I will fix him one. And I will fix me a chicken leg. Problem solved.That just agreeing to disagree and not really personal. Innit? There can be heated debate, sure. But when it gets to where it goes personal BECAUSE of those differences..that is what is uncivil. And just flat out being mean. Period. Right?I can also tend to be uncivil when I know a person I am trying to debate with is being dishonest. I get angry sometimes. I think one of the issues that I get the most worked up over is the 2nd amendment. I don't even own a gun. Lol! I just feel like it is imperative and extremely important to preserve each and every one of our rights.
You may agree to disagree with that. I won't mind.
What? No, flat out lying is uncivil. I'm not talking about legitimate debate.
And, how can lies be uncivil?
"Do I look fat in this"?
"No dear. You look lovely". (lied, but didn't want to hurt feelings).