Why don't you check it out, before you bring in misleading statements?
Your statement: Basically, Ukraine was never poised to become a NATO member in reality, despite Russian propaganda.
1994
Ukraine joins a collaborative partnership with NATO.
2008
Ukraine and Georgia begin to pursue membership in the NATO alliance. Later that summer Ukraine begins talks to form ties with the European Union.
2019-20
In 2019 Ukraine passes a constitutional amendment to pursue NATO and EU membership.
2021
Ukraine becomes a NATO Enhanced Opportunities Partner, cooperating on missions and exercises.
And a "neutral" Ukraine is absolutely no threat for Russia.