For me, being white is never having to wake up in the morning and even think about my race.... I just AM. I don't even realize I am white, I just somewhere deep inside, know I am, without even looking in a mirror... there's a silent, not even conscious, security of sorts... in being white, because I don't even have to think about my white race...I just AM.... I don't know how to explain it...
Bottom line, things are easier for me than a woman of color....I've done the mental experiment of... ''I wonder what it would be like, to be in Angela's shoes experiment...'' Angela is a close black girlfriend that I worked with at 2 different corporations.... and I know, even though she is just as smart as I am....I have it a little easier...an edge of security that she some times does not have....like when interviewing for a new job....she may wonder for a minute or two before going in, will this interviewer be prejudice? I've never had to think that....never even crossed my mind....