This is perhaps the most wasted holiday ever derived for people of color. The black community is about as divided as a race, than any group on the planet. We stand for nothing, fall for everything and could care less about each other, especially within our male population. Today's generation is about as clueless as a light switch about its history, is more inclined to embrace any other culture but their own and our men, our foot soldiers.....all dead on arrival....the biggest sellouts in history
And to see the celebrations is a joke....I wish BH month would just end, until black people can get their shit together, which is never ever ever ever gonna happen. February, the most wasted month for black history!!
Why the **** do people need to be recognized for their skin color?
Bigotry. Racist bigotry.
Bigotry is defined as "
intolerance toward those who hold different opinions from oneself..."
bigotry - Bing
If I'm not mistaken, that is exactly what your post just did.
ALL of us have an innate desire to belong. We go to family reunions and in sports we identify with certain teams that carry a certain logo and the name of a geographical area on them. An Asian girl almost won the last America's Got Talent show and I felt a tinge of pride since she lives in our neighborhood.
Race is much more than just about your skin color. It is an indicator of other important things about you. A black man sees other black people and can identify with them culturally. They share a common history. And so I think the OP looks at other black people; he thinks about his history and the history of those like him, extending back many years into the trials and tribulations of his ancestors from the African continent where his generational history began.
Many people believe that their Bible speaks directly to a specific people. In modern churchianity (as differentiated from Christianity), people think of Jews as "
God's chosen people." And, what exactly, determines that status? Is it not just as much a biological / genetic identification as it is one about what they believe? It would also be true that race is an
indicator of a person's biological make-up... an
indicator of their genetic being. It is an
indicator of who they are - who their ancestors were.
Certainly race is not the only component of who we are, but it is the most visible. If we are told that a Chinese man will be visiting us today, we don't imagine in our heads a fair skinned man with light color hair and wearing a kilt. We know what a Chinese looks like since over 98 percent of the people in the China are the same ethnic type of people. And it must be a big deal to some societies. China is 98 percent plus Han Chinese; Japan over 97 percent the same race; Koreans are up there with them... perhaps even more in cultural / ethnic / racial integrity.
I think the OP has every right to be frustrated with his race. If there were no value in preserving race, the concept of family and belonging would not be an innate feature of human beings. Granted, race - in and of itself is not the only thing that is relevant, but it is a visible trait just as the physical traits of your immediate relatives is apparent to you.
I don't see the OP being a bigot; I see him as being someone with a legitimate issue at a time when NO value is placed on family, culture, and religion.