I like my free speech!

I like being able to post things and not have people be able to move it to other parts of the forum where it can be taken out of context. I like the fact that there is a lot more HONESTY on this board when it comes to moderation, even in the Flame Zone section.
I can only speak in generalities, of course, but what sets apart this form of interaction from that of our daily lives is the anonymity. Because people are anonymous, they are much more likely to express thoughts they would be reluctant to express in person, and they are also much more aggressive.
Now, the approach as to how to handle this can go in various directions. A forum can allow the aggressive speech, the hate speech and all the crazy crap but also allow people to respond to it much as they do in real life. "Kill the Jews" results in "You're a fucking asshole" A different approach would be to limit the hate speech and the aggressiveness to begin with, by not allowing somebody to say "kill the Jews" so you wouldn't have the response. The third option, however, is the one myopic individuals too often take where they allow all the aggression and hate speech, but then punish those who react to it. "Kill the Jews" results in "You're a fucking asshole idiot" results in a "You have just received an infraction".
That that third approach makes the website an active participant in the hate speech since they are taking such a role in enabling it though the elimination of its natural consequences.