How to Win the Heart of that Special Someone...

[PoliticalChic]

Is the man disappointed that the woman won't sacrifice everything else for him ?

He isn't dejected yet and still believes there is hope.

What's in for him if the woman separates from everything else ?

???

He gets the woman of his dreams!
Isn't that enough?

 

[dilloduck]

He isn't dejected yet and still believes there is hope.

What's in for him if the woman separates from everything else ?

???

He gets the woman of his dreams!
Isn't that enough?

So he currently is pissed

 

[RodISHI]

Oh sure---that's easy for a hot chick to say. !!

If the shoe fits, I'll wear it.

looky there--it's as easy as puttin on a shoe !

That is the way true love is. The shoe fits to a tee!

Not to say you do not keep the shoe in top notch condition in as much as possible.

It is also a shoe that never wears out or goes out of style for you.

 

[PoliticalChic]

What's in for him if the woman separates from everything else ?

???

He gets the woman of his dreams!
Isn't that enough?

So he currently is pissed

No, he's contemplating how he's going to win her heart.

 

[dilloduck]

???

He gets the woman of his dreams!
Isn't that enough?

So he currently is pissed

No, he's contemplating how he's going to win her heart.

obviously he has to quit trying to change her or he's screwed

 

[PoliticalChic]

If the shoe fits, I'll wear it.

looky there--it's as easy as puttin on a shoe !

That is the way true love is. The shoe fits to a tee!

Not to say you do not keep the shoe in top notch condition in as much as possible.

It is also a shoe that never wears out or goes out of style for you.

What if you have a shoe fetish?

 

[PoliticalChic]

So he currently is pissed

No, he's contemplating how he's going to win her heart.

obviously he has to quit trying to change her or he's screwed

No he can't get screwed if she's not with him!

He should just let her go just like that?

 

[dilloduck]

looky there--it's as easy as puttin on a shoe !

That is the way true love is. The shoe fits to a tee!

Not to say you do not keep the shoe in top notch condition in as much as possible.

It is also a shoe that never wears out or goes out of style for you.

What if you have a shoe fetish?

I would suggest wearing them often

 

[RodISHI]

looky there--it's as easy as puttin on a shoe !

That is the way true love is. The shoe fits to a tee!

Not to say you do not keep the shoe in top notch condition in as much as possible.

It is also a shoe that never wears out or goes out of style for you.

What if you have a shoe fetish?

You more than likely have major problems.

 

[dilloduck]

No, he's contemplating how he's going to win her heart.

obviously he has to quit trying to change her or he's screwed

No he can't get screwed if she's not with him!

He should just let her go just like that?

not let her go--accept her as she is.

 

[Amanda]

If you were the man, what would you do? Remember she is your true love.

There's nothing you can do. You can love and wait. You can wander off after some time if you feel it's not workable. But all you can do is love. You can't do anything to influence or force the situation, you can only do damage that way. I would say that if the other person isn't willing to do whatever it takes they aren't quite as in love as the person that is. But the person that IS that willing may be making a mistake as well, so this isn't to say the person holding back is wrong. I see it as a way that nature works, if the pieces fit together it works, if they don't, it doesn't. But you can't force what isn't working. Love doesn't respond positively to that. Conditions breed conditions. You want unconditional love? You must give it.

 

[dilloduck]

If you were the man, what would you do? Remember she is your true love.

There's nothing you can do. You can love and wait. You can wander off after some time if you feel it's not workable. But all you can do is love. You can't do anything to influence or force the situation, you can only do damage that way. I would say that if the other person isn't willing to do whatever it takes they aren't quite as in love as the person that is. But the person that IS that willing may be making a mistake as well, so this isn't to say the person holding back is wrong. I see it as a way that nature works, if the pieces fit together it works, if they don't, it doesn't. But you can't force what isn't working. Love doesn't respond positively to that. Conditions breed conditions. You want unconditional love? You must give it.

yes---wha tthe old black man Amanda said is correct

 

[PoliticalChic]

obviously he has to quit trying to change her or he's screwed

No he can't get screwed if she's not with him!

He should just let her go just like that?

not let her go--accept her as she is.

Accept: Let's just be friends.

 

[dilloduck]

No he can't get screwed if she's not with him!

He should just let her go just like that?

not let her go--accept her as she is.

Accept: Let's just be friends.

these people arent' already married ?

 

[PoliticalChic]

That is the way true love is. The shoe fits to a tee!

Not to say you do not keep the shoe in top notch condition in as much as possible.

It is also a shoe that never wears out or goes out of style for you.

What if you have a shoe fetish?

You more than likely have major problems.

How did you know that I was talking about myself.

 

[Care4all]

sounds to me like he loves you, more than you love him....

in a normal religious marriage, the bride is "given away" to the groom....you are suppose to give up your family...so to say...in fact they are suppose to give you away...that is part of the deal.

just a tidbit of info that might help....?

 

[PoliticalChic]

not let her go--accept her as she is.

Accept: Let's just be friends.

these people arent' already married ?

At this point in our scenario, the woman and the man are not seeing each other.

 

[dilloduck]

not let her go--accept her as she is.

Accept: Let's just be friends.

these people arent' already married ?

If they're not married and I am the guy,-- I move on.

He's in love with a fantasy not this woman.

 

[PoliticalChic]

Can you have more than one true love? I say no; not for me. There will always be that one love that will stand out in your mind for the rest of your life. You can't have more than one soul mate.

 

[dilloduck]

are we done with the last one ?