How to get a girlfriend

Can someone help me get a girl in my life? I'm 41 and I'm white and from Dallas Tx. I need an intellectual and prefer liberal but can date outside of idealogy.
DO NOT date outside of your idiology. You will rue the day. It's like dating outside of your species. Consider the fact that, not only will you have to deal with her right wing views, but also all of her friends who will most likely be of the same bent, There was a time when it could work but in todays political environment, it's a recipe for disaster

Go to progressive political events. I met my wife of 35 years now at a fund raiser for the Villiage Independant Democrats in New York City. She was there with her then husband,, a conservative, who she was bored to tears with. She came over to talk to me anyway and slipped me her phone number. The rest is history
 
Stop searching, just increase your social activities and surround yourself with lots of people instead of sitting at home. There'll be a woman who lets you know she likes you.
 
Can someone help me get a girl in my life? I'm 41 and I'm white and from Dallas Tx. I need an intellectual and prefer liberal but can date outside of idealogy.
A closed mouth does not get fed. If you do not make offers for dates you are kinda dedicated in the water. As far as finding a nice one. There is no way to know for sue up front. Ya have to sort through them no way around it. As far as keeping them don't play games. Do what you say you will. If they play games ditch them post haste. Good luck
 

Lot of nice and pretty liberal women looking for a nice young man, such as yourself. Give it a try - you will not go away unhappy.
 
Open your mobile phone contacts or Facebook friends and arrange some spontaneous reunion with some old loose contacts. After 1-4 get-togethers you'll be introduced to new people from the side of your old friend. Be patient, don't force anything, always be hyper-hygeniec, and instead of searching you'll be found by a lonely woman. Very easy, worked for so many men befor you :)
 
It’s been my experience in life that it happens when you’re not looking,
 
Can someone help me get a girl in my life? I'm 41 and I'm white and from Dallas Tx. I need an intellectual and prefer liberal but can date outside of idealogy.
Sure..... first.... get a $million.
That will ensure you a girlfriend in minutes.... they will line up for your choosing
 
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DO NOT date outside of your idiology. You will rue the day. It's like dating outside of your species. Consider the fact that, not only will you have to deal with her right wing views, but also all of her friends who will most likely be of the same bent, There was a time when it could work but in todays political environment, it's a recipe for disaster

Go to progressive political events. I met my wife of 35 years now at a fund raiser for the Villiage Independant Democrats in New York City. She was there with her then husband,, a conservative, who she was bored to tears with. She came over to talk to me anyway and slipped me her phone number. The rest is history

The village people huh? Y.M.C.A.
 
You are not going to find them in a bar or at a pro abortion rally.
At least the pro abortion women won’t stick you with a kid you don’t want.
 
Can someone help me get a girl in my life? I'm 41 and I'm white and from Dallas Tx. I need an intellectual and prefer liberal but can date outside of idealogy.

Just curious as to where find a nice girl to be with.

Ok thanks I will work on all of that stuff. I'm just so lonely.

First, figure out what kinds of things you like to do, whether it be birdwatching, skateboarding, cooking, etc. Come up with 3 different things to do that you enjoy doing. Then, start looking for local groups that participate in the activity you're into (lots of places list themselves on the internet nowadays). Visit all 3 of the different groups with activities, and then figure out which one (or all) that you would be willing to cut out some time each week to participate in.

Next, start going and participating at those groups. Stick your hand out and meet everyone there (even if they are dudes because you want to be known as someone who is friendly with everyone). Keep talking with the people, finding out what you have in common with them, and showing up.

Even if you don't meet a lady in the first couple of months (this is a process, it's not gonna happen overnight), you WILL meet people you will want to hang out with. Go out for dinner, drinks or coffee. Have them over to your house, go over to theirs if invited. Even if you don't find a woman right away, you WILL make friends, and that will help with you being lonely. And, some of those friends who aren't dating material might know someone they would be interested in introducing you to. It will also help you brush up on your social skills so that when someone decides she wants to go out with you, you're able to be social and friendly.

You can also do the same thing by starting to attend church regularly, but only do that if it's something you don't mind doing. I've found that people at church tend to be a bit friendlier, and will welcome newcomers quite a bit faster than just going to hobby groups.

Sitting around your house, posting on message boards, isn't the way to meet women.
 
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