I get asked a lot by my stepfather the very same question, "Why do you support this guy?" I've thought about it, and my answer is, "I just like him."
And there in lies the problem. He is likable as a person. He is a horrible leader who is failing at every turn, and can only blame others, Point fingers, and appoint commissions. Millions of people are supporting him for the same reason you just gave, they just like him. Or in the case of Many Blacks, they support him just because he is black. I can't say I can blame them after what they have been through in this country. So I don't fault them as much as I do Libs like yourself. Who continue to support this guy despite failure after failure. just because you like him!
He is not "doing his best" to do what is right for America, He is doing his best to implement his rigid far left political Agenda, and that my friend is what your stepfather can see, because of his Age and experience, That you can not.
I asked for that. I'm not denying that I let my personal preferences cloud my judgement. But don't fault "me" or "libs like me". Talk to me, maybe I'll agree with you, or learn something in the process.
I'm not here to convert anyone to my way of thinking, just to throw ideas back and forth. I'm still young and trying to figure out all of these complicated, important issues. But I can't help how I feel. That wouldn't be honest, and frankly, I don't think I can conceal my personal biases forever, so I thought I'd put it all out there to begin with. Kind of like a disclosure.
And no, I don't think he's been a great leader with everything. But there are certain things he's done I respect. I think he's handled himself well under significant pressure. I think he's brought a higher level of intelligence to the job. But I will agree that I don't think he executes it well. The one arguement I will point out here is he didn't have enough experience for the role he took. Other presidents that lacked such experience had people around them to steer them right, Obama doesn't have that and the people he has appointed to "steer him right" are steering him wrong.