Tell us about when you chose your sexual orientation.
How long did you contemplate schlong and what pros and cons did you think about?
"Hmm, let me see. My choices are straight, gay, bi-sexual. What will I choose? How will it be with men? How will it be with women? Let me get a hard on thinking about men and then women and I will see which one toCHOOSE."
A choice MEANS you contemplated OTHER orientations.
Not in a million years. Quit shitting us.
Same sex attraction is IN YOU. Falling in love is not a choice.
I fell in love with a woman because I ALWAYS was attracted to women.
That is how it works. Someone is born with same sex attraction and falls in love with someone of the same sex is how it works.
Even us rednecks here know that.
Religion ***** up brains.
Gaydawg, I wonder if you have the ability to understand how your posts, especially this one, puts you in the same catagory as that of a three dollar bill. I would have to concur with the individual that believes you are a comedian of some sort. I hope you are at least intelligent enough not to give up your day job.
As ABS's encounter with his lesbian friend indicates, she clearly was contemplating other orientations. She was making a choice. Do you feel that ABS is shitting you as well?
Being a woman, were you honestly ALWAYS attracted to other women? Have you NEVER kissed a boy or a man? If you answer no then you are a rarity. By far, the majority of gays and lesbians I've known admitted to having opposite sex interludes in their life.
This how it TRUTHFULLY works. You are not born with same sex attractions anymore than you are born an arsonist, thief, or liar. In fact, you are not born with ANY sexual attraction. Extensive studies show that sexual orientation begins near or at puberty. While biological and hormone balances MAY (haven't been proven yet) influence orientation, environment seems to be the key ingredient to sexual orientation. Key among environmental factors shared by most gays is: 1.) Absent fathers, 2.) Indifferent or non-loving fathers, 3.) Smothering mothers, 4.) same sex encounter and 5.) Dominant mothers. Granted, there are heteros that may share similar enviro, hormonal or biolgical traits. Clearly, this indicates choice.
While the less intelligent gays will insist they were 'born this way' because they feel it legitimizes or makes it more 'real' to them, the intelligent gay understands and accepts the fact it is is a choice. Maybe brought on by forces they had little control over, but still... clearly a choice.
I'm willing to bet that rednecks you think you speak for, disown you.
As for your religion bumper sticker... I need to ask. Why in the world would you inject that here?
Lastly, make you a deal. You get a brain and quit spreading your urban myth of being 'born this way' and I won't even start on the gay secret gerbil training camps.