You know I just wish my deceased wife is safe heaven...
I wish she could tell me so I could really move on..
I don't know about others, but my experiences did not happen because I was waiting. My best friend. My dad. A cousin. Nothing and I don't expect anything from them. It doesn't work like that, which reminds me, I have no idea how it does work. For example, my grandfather showed up for only one repair. In all the missing people in my genealogy, only once did I feel something outside was guiding me to a name.
Waiting will not prompt anything, so go with the opposite. Move on. Really move on and see what happens. I am
NOT suggesting that this will prompt contact between you and your wife. I'm only noting that
if something, someday, were to happen, it would be more likely because you let go of the past and traveled into the future to meet up with it.