Zone1 Encouragement for member and friend Dale Smith

[Dalia]

Yes, but nothing strenuous. Cooking, washing clothes. He's very weak and in severe pain.

Hello Hossfly, can you please tell him that I am thinking of him and that I would like to be there near him but I am far away but that I remember the moments I lived here at the forum with him and that it is forever. Sorry I'm heartbroken.
I put a song for him.

 

[Hossfly]

Hello Hossfly, can you please tell him that I am thinking of him and that I would like to be there near him but I am far away but that I remember the moments I lived here at the forum with him and that it is forever. Sorry I'm heartbroken.
I put a song for him.

He read this post, Dalia

 

[Dale Smith]

He read this post, Dalia

Well, I wrote a long ass reply and somehow it got deleted but I am posting a video that is pretty damn funny....too much sadness. So enjoy this...the response to this bit of comedy gold has been great! Love yall to the moon and back!

 

[Dalia]

He read this post, Dalia

Yes, i am glad that he could read my post and i will try to come back soon at the forum because my computer do not work very well the page freezes I had already tried to come posted to the forum a few week ago but it did not work.

 

[Dale Smith]

This one I did today. It got a little long and I wanted to mention you all more here and I will in the coming days while I am still having good days. Love you all.....

 

[Dale Smith]

Gracie : I think I found your song. It sure makes me think of you. I love this song and it brings on the tears.

 

[Dale Smith]

Yes, i am glad that he could read my post and i will try to come back soon at the forum because my computer do not work very well the page freezes I had already tried to come posted to the forum a few week ago but it did not work.

Hey! If you need m e to help you get a new computer or help repair it? Let me know. I don't know what the exchange rate is for the currency but I bet we could figure something out.

Hugs!

 

[Dalia]

Hey! If you need m e to help you get a new computer or help repair it? Let me know. I don't know what the exchange rate is for the currency but I bet we could figure something out.

Hugs!

Hi Dale, you're a darling love . My computer works better now

Edit : Sorry i just saw your video Dale, Love you and thinking of you.

 

[Gracie]

Nice song, Dale. But...I'm not doing fine without him. I forgave him too late. Now I wish he could forgive ME.

 

[Mindful]

Dale,

I’m concerned/interested in how you are coping with your daily life.

The trivia, practical stuff, most of us cope with without thinking about It.

 

[Mindful]

Dale.

Are you currently getting treatment?

At home, in the hospital? Or both?

 

[Dalia]

This one I did today. It got a little long and I wanted to mention you all more here and I will in the coming days while I am still having good days. Love you all.....

Dale, I don't go on Facebook anymore because my account had been hacked, I'm sorry for the loss of your cats, I'm a cat lover. No one can understand your suffering but we can give you compassion and the doctors really suck today sometimes, you fight like my stepfather stage 4 cancer and he fights like a lion and continues to take care of his yard. And I love you too.

 

[Gracie]

I don't do facebook either. I loathe Fuckerberg too much. But I did watch your vid here, so thank you for bringing it to usmb for those who don't do FB either.

 

[the other mike]

Dale.

Are you currently getting treatment?

At home, in the hospital? Or both?

Post # 305

 

[Dale Smith]

Nice song, Dale. But...I'm not doing fine without him. I forgave him too late. Now I wish he could forgive ME.

Sorry.......thought it might help. I will say that hanging onto the past and past hurt only serves to rip the scab off a wound that was healing. I hope you find peace and soon. Hugs ya....

 

[Dale Smith]

Dale.

Are you currently getting treatment?

At home, in the hospital? Or both?

I am in at home hospice. I have refused any kind of treatment. #1 It's futile #2 I have suffered enough indignancies. #3 It's my decision whether to seek treatment and I choose the road less traveled.

 

[Dale Smith]

Dale,

I’m concerned/interested in how you are coping with your daily life.

The trivia, practical stuff, most of us cope with without thinking about It.

I don't do much but clean my little house, take care of the yard and play my guitar and record songs when I am feeling well enough to do so. Lately, I have taken to posting some humorous stuff and have some good ideas for some others. I have been eating better and I have been craving homemade ice cream that I make myself. I have lots to watch on TV. A very good friend gave me this firestick that has just about anything you would want to watch and some things you wouldn't want to watch. I am just killing time basically. I have a lot of good friends all over the internet and in real time. All of you here mean as much to me as anyone else that I know. I don't draw attention to myself nor do I like to talk about what I am facing. I try and spread as much kindness as I can in real time but I have always been that way. I am not trying to make amends for anything because I am trying to score points with God. I have offended and insulted a lot of leftists/communists/fabian socialists here and make no apologies for it. Walking has become a real task and I use a walker when I need to do so. I dread the day I can't walk at all. I am prone to trip and fall a lot. My sense of balance is really bad and my memory has become a joke.


The bottom line is that I don't want people to pity me or treat me differently. The sebacous cysts that have taken over my face and scalp really fucks with my self-esteem but there isn't anything I can do about it except use make-up when I have a music gig to play. I can't stand and play anymore and the other guys in the band make sure I have a bar chair to sit in as I play and they load my amp and guitars for me and I appreciate that a lot. Any other questions? Just let me know.

 

[Mindful]

I don't do much but clean my little house, take care of the yard and play my guitar and record songs when I am feeling well enough to do so. Lately, I have taken to posting some humorous stuff and have some good ideas for some others. I have been eating better and I have been craving homemade ice cream that I make myself. I have lots to watch on TV. A very good friend gave me this firestick that has just about anything you would want to watch and some things you wouldn't want to watch. I am just killing time basically. I have a lot of good friends all over the internet and in real time. All of you here mean as much to me as anyone else that I know. I don't draw attention to myself nor do I like to talk about what I am facing. I try and spread as much kindness as I can in real time but I have always been that way. I am not trying to make amends for anything because I am trying to score points with God. I have offended and insulted a lot of leftists/communists/fabian socialists here and make no apologies for it. Walking has become a real task and I use a walker when I need to do so. I dread the day I can't walk at all. I am prone to trip and fall a lot. My sense of balance is really bad and my memory has become a joke.


The bottom line is that I don't want people to pity me or treat me differently. The sebacous cysts that have taken over my face and scalp really fucks with my self-esteem but there isn't anything I can do about it except use make-up when I have a music gig to play. I can't stand and play anymore and the other guys in the band make sure I have a bar chair to sit in as I play and they load my amp and guitars for me and I appreciate that a lot. Any other questions? Just let me know.

And all this as a result of cancer?
How did it start?

Concerning the firestick, l have one too. Everything was going great, TV from all over the world. Until it started buffering. Most annoying. Shall have to get that sorted out.

I also have a satellite system, but some of those channels pixilate, whiich is a recent development. Also most annoying.

And those lefties you mention, some of them come here just to be gratuitously nasty. Nothing to do with politics.

 

[Gracie]

Sorry.......thought it might help. I will say that hanging onto the past and past hurt only serves to rip the scab off a wound that was healing. I hope you find peace and soon. Hugs ya....

I know you meant well. It's a fitting song..except the part where she sings she is doing fine. Other than that...its exactly how I feel. I am thankful for this place too, because many have gone thru or are going thru the same emotions I am. The company is appreciated.

 

[toobfreak]

Dale Smith is experiencing a severe medical condition and needs some moral support. I won't go into details but if anyone wants to contact Dale, there are a couple methods to use. He checks the forums often and replies to messages. To get his attention, tag him in your replies. Also you can PM him. He likes to talk to people and you can PM him for his phone number or you can give him yours. He plans on visiting me in the near future when he returns home. I will keep the board informed of his situation and progress.

Real bummer to hear that! I've long since joining here considered Dale Smith as one of my best liked and most valued contributors here! Over time I guess I had just assumed he had changed names or something, drifted away or whatever as many do here! But I definitely wish Dale the best of luck and a speedy recovery to get over whatever he is dealing with now feeling well again and hopefully someday, we will see him back posting here again!