Do you think it's okay..........

[Said1]

I find that very hard to believe.

Why?

 

[dmp]

I find that very hard to believe.

I don't know what else to say...but maybe you are confused a bit? I dunno why this is so...pardon the pun, HARD to get.

Do you honestly see NO difference in sexual arrousal and lust?

 

[5stringJeff]

I don't know what else to say...but maybe you are confused a bit? I dunno why this is so...pardon the pun, HARD to get.

Do you honestly see NO difference in sexual arrousal and lust?

You're telling me that you can/do/have/whatever watched porn and not felt a feeling of lust towards the females portrayed therein?

 

[dmp]

You're telling me that you can/do/have/whatever watched porn and not felt a feeling of lust towards the females portrayed therein?

That's exactly what i'm telling you. I've SEEN a pr0n where I thought "MAN! I'd like to be nailing THAT chick!" which means "I'm sexually desiring her!" I have watched pr0n and felt a feeling of sexual arousal/desire for my WIFE, however.

That is not Lust - that is a condition of sexual arousal.

Lust - lust (emphasis mine)
n.

1. Intense or unrestrained sexual craving.
a.An overwhelming desire or craving: a lust for power.
b. Intense eagerness or enthusiasm: a lust for life.

sinful longing; the inward sin which leads to the falling away from God (Rom.
1:21). "Lust, the origin of sin, has its place in the heart, not of necessity,
but because it is the centre of all moral forces and impulses and of spiritual
activity." In Mark 4:19 "lusts" are objects of desire.

I'm saying watching a Pr0n won't necessarily cause lust. I'm saying I can be VERY aroused without LUSTING. Arousal is a physical condition - lust is an 'inward' condition.

 

[dilloduck]

Men and women have sex drives---it is hard wired into us. It's primary function is to continue the species. Sex is not love. It is not a sin to acknowledge sex drives. Religions and societies have placed "rules" on sex. So many if fact that people are confused as hell. When one of just says the word sex it may mean something COMPLETELY different to someone else. It's an area that society just can't get a grip on. Do what you think is right --be a giver not a taker--don't hurt other people--you aren't always gonna be satisfied.

 

[Joz]

Men and women have sex drives---it is hard wired into us.

Which means it an be controlled.

It's primary function is to continue the species.

Who said. Because God said to multiply?

Sex is not love.

Right.

Do what you think is right --be a giver not a taker--don't hurt other people--you aren't always gonna be satisfied.

If more people tended to the needs of their spouse there would be little room for a third party of any kind. There is NO one so unselfish as to not want something from sex in return, but that doesn't always come in the form of a climax. But marriage is a need-meeting relationship.

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

You're telling me that you can/do/have/whatever watched porn and not felt a feeling of lust towards the females portrayed therein?

Let's try it this way.
You can be physically aroused by a nice breeze, but you don't lust
for the wind.

A big girl can tie you down and stroke you till arousal
but you don't have to lust for her.

 

[GotZoom]

Let's try it this way.
You can be physically aroused by a nice breeze, but you don't lust
for the wind.

Where do you live?

I'm moving there.

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

Where do you live?

I'm moving there.

In general....NOT ME!

 

[dilloduck]

Quote:
Originally Posted by dilloduck
Men and women have sex drives---it is hard wired into us.

Which means it an be controlled.

No it doesn't

Quote:
It's primary function is to continue the species.

Who said. Because God said to multiply?

No

Quote:
Sex is not love.

Right.
Quote:
Do what you think is right --be a giver not a taker--don't hurt other people--you aren't always gonna be satisfied.

If more people tended to the needs of their spouse there would be little room for a third party of any kind. There is NO one so unselfish as to not want something from sex in return, but that doesn't always come in the form of a climax. But marriage is a need-meeting relationship.

Marriage is to raise children and take care of THEIR needs and the needs of others. Adults should be able to fend for themselves.

 

[GotZoom]

In general....NOT ME!

I was going to say...if the breeze in Colorado is that nice....

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

I was going to say...if the breeze in Colorado is that nice....

It's a COLD breeze today so, fat chance.
(we even got a few snow fluries.)

 

[Nienna]

Um Darin hate to break it to you but Catholics do not see sex as simply a means to make babies, the church encourages married couples to have great sex often and sees it as the one of the most important parts of married life. I think many people just assume otherwise because of
the stereotyping of Catholics.....

Darin has mentioned this a few times... not 100% positive where he gets this idea, but I think it might be from a debate with liberalogic (I think the thread was Bible Topics). LL said he was raised Catholic, and this POV was what was taught in their classes, that sex was solely for procreation.

I was raised Catholic, and we weren't taught this. But maybe this is where D got the idea?

 

[dmp]

Darin has mentioned this a few times... not 100% positive where he gets this idea, but I think it might be from a debate with liberalogic (I think the thread was Bible Topics). LL said he was raised Catholic, and this POV was what was taught in their classes, that sex was solely for procreation.

I was raised Catholic, and we weren't taught this. But maybe this is where D got the idea?

Going by what I 'think' I know. Maybe you and Bonnie, a gallon of salad dressing, and a couple midgets can prove me wrong?

:

 

[Nienna]

Going by what I 'think' I know. Maybe you and Bonnie, a gallon of salad dressing, and a couple midgets can prove me wrong?

:

I DO have a thing for midgets... as long as it isn't midget porn. BC porn is wrong, you know.

 

[Bonnie]

I DO have a thing for midgets... as long as it isn't midget porn. BC porn is wrong, you know.

Salad dressing is messy, how about pudding at least that tastes good :tng:

 

[dilloduck]

Going by what I 'think' I know. Maybe you and Bonnie, a gallon of salad dressing, and a couple midgets can prove me wrong?

:

Salad dressing is addictive and will DEFINATELY ruin you marriage !!!!

 

[Nienna]

Salad dressing is messy, how about pudding at least that tastes good :tng:

Butterscotch? Do you like butterscotch pudding?

Tell you what, Bonnie, let's skip the salad dressing/midget threesome, and go out for some pudding and some "girl talk." What do you say?

 

[dmp]

I DO have a thing for midgets... as long as it isn't midget porn. BC porn is wrong, you know.

Salad dressing is messy, how about pudding at least that tastes good :tng:

Holy LORD...my HEART!! You two will be the DEATH of me....but what a way to go, eh?? eh??

 

[dmp]

Butterscotch? Do you like butterscotch pudding?

Tell you what, Bonnie, let's skip the salad dressing/midget threesome, and go out for some pudding and some "girl talk." What do you say?

[bonnie voice = on]
"No thanks dear - it'd be MUCH more fun and fulfilling to kidnap Darin for a weekend...say...some place tropical?"

[/voice]