Just take a look at the very sad and tragic story of Robert Sandifer - raised in and lived a life of crime and was murdered at only 11 years old. I'll never forget him and the story Time Magazine had on him.
Robert Sandifer - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Robert "Yummy" Sandifer (March 12, 1983 — September 1, 1994) garnered national attention in September 1994 after his murder by fellow gang members in Chicago, Illinois.[1][2][3][4] He appeared on the cover of TIME magazine in September 1994.
Yummy's mother was a prostitute and a crack cocaine addict who had her first son at age 15. Yummy was a victim of abuse from an early age, and was sent to live with his grandmother by the Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS) after one of his brothers, Victor, went blind from a neglected eye infection. His grandmother's residence contained as many as 19 children on some occasions. Sandifer, at age 8, quit regularly attending school and took to the streets stealing cars and breaking into houses. The year before his death he was removed to a DCFS shelter on Chicago's north side, which he ran away from.
Nicknamed Yummy because of his love of junk food, Sandifer was a young member of the street gang the Black Disciples. After committing murder, arson and armed robbery, he was executed by fellow gang members who feared he could be turned snitch. Coverage of Sandifer's death and retrospectives on his short, violent life were widely published in the American media, and Sandifer became a symbol of the gang problem in American inner cities, the failure of social safety netting, and the shortcomings of the juvenile justice system.
My belief is that it's called
sin, and we are
all capable of it. And sin leads to sin and only hurts ourselves or others. The way we are raised by our parents, (or lack of) our surroundings etc, will mostly likely will have an impact on our actions, though not always. God can do anything and work miracles in our lives, to help us turn away from sins, help us love others/ourselves. His Grace is sufficient.
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