Coming Out as a Fag

[jillian]

Between this and your shoe fetus, I would say you are a fag.

yep

 

[Bonzi]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

 

[ZackB]

I am straight. At least that is how it appears. I have never had any homo experiences nor have I wanted to. I have never slipped and "accidentally" fell down onto an erect cock, for example. I have been married and I have kids. I feel that I must say this because some of you assholes will waste a lot of time and space trying to make this seem like it is something it is not. Now, to the point.

I think that if I was a closeted faggot I would refrain from coming out. I know that it would absolutely devastate my family, especially siblings, nephews, nieces, parents, etc.., to find out that I was a homo. So, why hurt all of those people and fuck up vital familial relationships? I don't think that I would even act out on urges given that it would bring such shame down in the family.

I know that this goes against the grain - the whole "be who you are" bullshit. But there was a time when the family came first and your selfish needs and desires were secondary. Today there is what could be described as an epidemic of narcissism whereby individuals will damn everything that does not further their desired ends.

I don't think I would feel differently if I was a fag either. I'd keep that shit to myself and feel like I had a duty to do so. Even if I had to act on it I would feel a duty to protect my family. After all, I have no right to impose my views and lifestyle on anyone else. I'd keep the boy toys under wraps if I had any and just tell the family that they are neighbors or some shit. For me personally, I probably would not even act on a homo desire. I would just quietly bare that burden. Why? Because I love my family and I am not a selfish, drama queen, prick.

why are you spending your time thinking about how you would come out.

your repeated use of the word "fag" doesn't make your comments any less questionable.

but even assuming you're not the closeted homosexual you sound like, if you don't wake up every morning deciding who you are attracted to, then you should understand neither do gay people.

and no one should live in the closet.

and if your family loved you, they wouldn't want you to.

damn, bigots are funny. but I'm sorry you're so self-hating.

And right on cue here is Jillian to suck the life right out of the thread.

poor baby. when you write stuff that makes you sound like a closeted homosexual and get offended, I'd say that's *your* problem.

therapy might help as well, little boy.

Swing and a miss!

 

[Bonzi]

there are a group of guys obsessed with calling each other gay - stupid...

It is totally stupid that a bunch of grown men cannot have a serious conversation about homos without devolving into high school name calling and sexual derision. Grow up!

But still you know all about it!!!! It will never change!!!

 

[Dhara]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

Insecure. Who cares who or what you have a weakness for?

 

[jillian]

there are a group of guys obsessed with calling each other gay - stupid...

It is totally stupid that a bunch of grown men cannot have a serious conversation about homos without devolving into high school name calling and sexual derision. Grow up!

you think people should live in the closet... write a post which uses the word "fag" at least a half dozen times and you think you're starting a "serious" conversation.

ok. but my response to you WA?S serious, little boy. how dare you try to push people into the closet because you hate yourself.

 

[NLT]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

Insecure. Who cares who or what you have a weakness for?

^^^^^^^22 on 16 weak

 

[Dhara]

Shoe fetus. That is funny!

 

[Lucy Hamilton]

The OP totally fucking blows dudes. It's hard to tell his family with a throat full of cum. He says his "boy toy" is a neighbor. He lives next pillow to him.

"The OP totally fucking blows dudes. It's hard to tell his family with a throat full of cum."

Okay

 

[Bonzi]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

Insecure. Who cares who or what you have a weakness for?

everyone cares.... why wouldn't they? well the men with muscles care anyway

 

[jillian]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

but there's nothing desperate about the way you present yourself on the board.



okie dokie.

 

[Lucy Hamilton]

Shoe fetus. That is funny!

I'm hoping it was a spelling error!

 

[Bonzi]

The OP is an attention whore.

It takes one to know one..... <patting self on back>

 

[Dhara]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

Insecure. Who cares who or what you have a weakness for?

everyone cares.... why wouldn't they? well the men with muscles care anyway

Why are you trying to pick up men on a messageboard? I thought you were married?

 

[jillian]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

Insecure. Who cares who or what you have a weakness for?

everyone cares.... why wouldn't they? well the men with muscles care anyway

the better question is why do you need to use an anonymous message board to try to get men?

 

[ZackB]

there are a group of guys obsessed with calling each other gay - stupid...

It is totally stupid that a bunch of grown men cannot have a serious conversation about homos without devolving into high school name calling and sexual derision. Grow up!

you think people should live in the closet... write a post which uses the word "fag" at least a half dozen times and you think you're starting a "serious" conversation.

ok. but my response to you WA?S serious, little boy. how dare you try to push people into the closet because you hate yourself.

Ha ha ha! Strike Two!

 

[NLT]

Shoe fetus. That is funny!

Are you thinking about aborting it?

 

[Bonzi]

I have this weakness lately for men with muscles..... unexplainable.....

but there's nothing desperate about the way you present yourself on the board.



okie dokie.

you say desperate... I say honest... I get what I want.. Always.

 

[TNHarley]

Shoe fetus. That is funny!

I'm hoping it was a spelling error!

Fucked up aint it?

 

[ZackB]

The OP is an attention whore.

It takes one to know one..... <patting self on back>

Yeah, baby! Call me a whore again!