Heck, when people try to blame the victim of rape for being raped, they usually use excuses like "she dressed provocatively" or "she should have known not to walk in that neighborhood". What you and Kokomo are doing amounts to saying a women asked for rape because her first name started with a B.
But, hey -- if you want to live in a world where French are snobs and Americans are fat and ignorant, and that gives Islamists reason for murdering any and all of us, then go for it, Ma'am. I prefer to live in a world of ACTUAL reason, myself, so when innocent people are murdered, I do not blame them -- I blame their murderer.