Not to worry hazlnut.
There are as many people " in the wrong " on BOTH sides of these gay issues.
A. the neutral ground would be for the state not to impose marriage laws either way.
1. so both the BANS against gay marriage are unconstitutional for excluding other beliefs
2. and the laws IMPOSING gay marriage "through the state" are unconstitutional
The proper way to prevent unconstitutional discrimination against beliefs is to keep marriage
up to people and/or churches, and keep this out of govt jurisdiction over decisions either way.
B. whether homosexuality is by birth and not a choice, or is lifestyle choice that can change
1. there are cases where someone is spiritually born to be certain ways and cannot change
2. there are cases where homosexuality is unnaturally caused by abuse and can be healed
So people on both sides who INSIST that "all homosexuality" is ALL ONE WAY can be proven to be WRONG.
What I have found to be true, is there are both types going on. It is NOT all one way, either all natural or all unnatural;
so people who argue the other side is wrong are EQUALLY WRONG. Both are possible, and you cannot judge it from the outside.
And yes, some cases of homosexuality caused by unnatural sexual abuse CAN be healed.
It is up to the people and their spiritual path in life; this happens also, but it is NOT ALL CASES either.
What will go down in history, is that people are generally equal -- equally right on some points as equally wrong on others.
So it comes out even, where nobody is more or less at fault than anyone else. Whatever harm we cause can be compensated for to bring good.
From great tragedy and injustice comes great redemption that makes up for the sacrifice.
There is not just "one bad guy" because there are equal faults and wrongs on all sides.
We are equally responsible for correcting our parts in these problems and to collaborate on solutions.
There is not a single person on the planet who isn't part of the solution, and who is needed to fill that unique role.
Twin brothers David and Jason Benham have lost their opportunity to host their own HGTV show.
The brothers ran afoul of the network after the site Right Wing Watch published a post about the pair, labeling David Benham as an "anti-gay, anti-choice extremist" for reportedly leading a prayer rally in 2012 outside of the Democratic National Convention held in Charlotte, North Carolina.
The site posted a recording of Benham talking to a talk show host about "homosexuality and its agenda that is attacking the nation" and "demonic ideologies" taking hold in colleges and public schools.
Benham also discusses the fight for North Carolina's Amendment One, which involved a ban on same-sex marriage and civil unions in the state constitution.
The Benham brothers were the planned stars of the HGTV show "Flip It Forward," set to premiere in October, in which they would have helped families purchase homes they otherwise could not afford.
Oh well, one more TV channel deleted from my FAVORITES LIST. Looks like free speech really has been taking a beating in the private enterprise world lately. Hopefully, HGTV will reconsider this ridiculous action and bring the show back on. Or some other network will air it.
As the brothers themselves said >>
"With all of the grotesque things that can be seen and heard on television today you would think there would be room for two twin brothers who are faithful to our families, committed to biblical principles, and dedicated professionals. If our faith costs us a television show then so be it."
Benham brothers lose HGTV show after 'anti-gay' remarks - CNN.com
Shit happens… when you're on the WRONG side of history.
I think history will find all humanity standing "beside" ourselves, hand in hand,
facing our past and our future together. It will take all our contributions to right the wrongs, to learn from the past, and build a more stable foundation that is sustainable.
this petty political infighting is not sustainable. it is a waste of valuable resources and relations. It is a stage we have to go through, obviously, but where we are heading, we will rise above and become better bigger people than this, in order to fix global problems.