Well, since these boys are still missing, I would think that this was NOT a very good idea. It is legal for a 14-year-old to operate a boat though. I think the ages of such things should be raised. These are still children. They don't yet HAVE critical-thinking skills (as demonstrated by MRI scans of frontal lobes and lack of connections between synapses), so they are more prone than most adults to making bad decisions, especially when split decisions have to be made. I do not BLAME the parents though. None of us is perfect, and I can understand how they would feel more comfortable allowing their boys to do this with a boating background. That does not mean that I have to agree with them though. But I have no animosity or ill will towards these parents. I feel nothing but sympathy for them. I can't imagine having to wait and wonder like they have been doing, and it's probably not going to turn out very good, unfortunately. It's just a terrible tragedy, but that does not mean that I would ever allow MY 14-year-old son to do something like this. I've been on relatively small boats in the ocean and I've been in choppy waters, and it is quite dangerous and the waves can be unpredictable too. The larger the boat, the safer you are going to be, let's just put it that way.