Honestly ... No Offense Gracie ... You have a good heart, as well as Boop 85% of the time and almost always Cabbie.
It is just that somehow people think sugar-coating the ill things they say and feel towards others somehow makes it different than what they mean ... It doesn't.
If someone wants to be ugly ... It doesn't matter what their intentions are or how they say it ... They are still being ugly.
The only thing that is really different is that they are being ugly and self-righteous at the same time.
If you want to start a fight ... Expect to get hit ... And don't cry when you do.
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Except real debate is not supposed to be about starting a fight, and it is not supposed to be about demonizing a person, it's supposed to be about vigorously defending your ideas/ideals by applying logic and at the same time, deconstructing the ideas/ ideals of your opponent by using logic as well.
Two great debators should be able to shake hands before and after a really rough and rugged debate and not think ill of each other.
An opponent is not an enemy.
Making someone else the "demon" just because he does not share your ideology or culture is the cheap way out, imo. It requires the least energy of all. So, essentially, trolls are lazy asses.
What makes you think that throwing around an insult, or even profanity, means you can't shake hands after the debate?
It is nice to pretend that people are actually Vulcans, and that they can approach a subject they care deeply about without getting passionate, but even Vulcans can't do that. Personally, I would much rather let my passion out to emphasize my point,
even if that means throwing an insult or two when it is justified, and still being able to treat the person I am arguing about with respect when we aren't arguing. That is impossible, for me, when the other person insists that I cannot express my emotions.
If you need evidence of how that really works watch C-SPAN sometime. Every member of Congress that gets to a leadership position has training in debating tactics
and they all insult each other. Up until recently, the leaders were willing to put aside the things they said when it came time to work together, until one side suddenly decided that being civil trumps passion. The result is a Congress that is hamstrung by one side demanding that the other side conform to their rules, yet allows their members to demonize the other side for not conforming.
If you really hate the concept of making someone the demon just because you don't agree with them,
you will stop pretending that you have a right to demand that other people conform to your fake standards. If you seriously want to have real debate with the other side, stop pretending you are better than them. Let them see how you feel about whatever it is you are discussing, express the total contempt you feel when an idiot says something stupid, and live free.
Funny thing, when you start expressing contempt whenever it is deserved, even when it is toward people who are attempting to defend your position by making stupid arguments, you are better able to separate your feelings for the position from your feelings for the person. I have argued with almost everyone on this board at some point, quite vehemently in most cases, but am more than willing to defend any of them when I believe they are right. I am passionate about my opinions, and will not hide that passion simply because a few idiots take it personally.
The world does not work that way, live with it.
For instance, Tank wrote this:
You have reality on ignore
Instead of attacking the idea, he attacked the person. That is the cheap way out. And notice the Nazi who thanked him for his input. That speaks volumes.
Hey, @
Tank, instead of attacking a person, why not bring some information to the table?
What makes you think he has information to bring?
Don't get me wrong, he occasionally says some very insightful things, and I have even pos repped him for something he said, but he is uninformed and one dimensional and is more than willing to go out of his way to avoid learning things. There are way too many people like that in the world, and you cannot change them simply by pretending that they aren't what they are.