I cannot really stop you from dealing with "nitty gritty". I am just trying to appeal to your heart. I am under no illusion that my posts will make any difference. But at least I did what an ordinary man can do and that is appeal to your soul.
As far as the dream is concerned, it does exist and it is a good dream. It certainly is better than the nightmare you are proposing.
I haven't proposed anything ... My soul and heart temper things with compassion in the real world.
You cannot stop yourself from dealing with the nitty-gritty once you understand that your dream is just a dream.
Just because someone doesn't run around waving a CareBear flag or have rainbows shooting out of their ass ... Doesn't mean that they need fixing.
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