Are YOU getting old "gracefully"???

Are YOU getting old "gracefully"?

I am not.

A strange OP given that you chose to tell us that you are 44 , and that what seems like the majority here are in their eighties or post as though they are .

Look at the preceding poster ( Horsey Horse when written )as a random example .

Clearly approaching second childhood and more than ready to be put out to pasture along with the donkeys there already .

I am ageing very happily with all faculties intact , but I am a comparative youngster here and fortunate in that respect -- but not so lucky to be trapped among a bunch of blathering idiots who seem preoccupied with having grown into being Extremist Lefty Mutants .
 
My dad turned 93 last week, my mom is 90. Last year they celebrated 70 years married. They still live alone and he still drives he and mom for grocery shopping and doctors and going out to dinner. My older sister lives about 5 houses away and cooks for them etc.... At around 85 my mom decided she was finally going to retire and not cook anymore!

He was 91 when he finally began to accept that he was getting older. This past year his knees are giving out and he has miss stepped and fallen three times...and now is realizing he can't do what he used to.... And in a way he is still in denial....even though he can't get up out of a restaurant chair without a table and back of chair to help lift him up. He still refuses to use a walker or even a cane....he doesn't want to look old and feeble....he's a real stubborn man!

My mom is still doing good physically, but she does have some dementia, and if you asked what she ate for breakfast or went to the doctor last, she says...let me ask dad. My dad's head is 100% and she has accepted she can't remember and relies on him for those things.

Dad is going to be miserable when his doctor tells him, he can no longer drive. Everything changes at that point, life is over in his head...when that happens....my sister and I don't know what to do, to get him ready for it.

I've been here in Florida the last two months and I can finally see the changes they are going through
 
I love to hunt and fish but I can't "run and gun" on the mountain ridges or wade the Shenandoah anymore so I took to flatter land. I bank fish instead of wading, etc. I use the 4-wheeler a lot more.

I'm not having to fill the larder every year to feed the family so I'm enjoying what I can still do.

Now it's just a pastime, not a job. There's something to be said for that.

If there's a tasty meal afterwards, so much the better. :)
 
Are YOU getting old "gracefully"?

I am not. I hate it, it sucks, I despise it, and people tend to get pissed off with me a lot because I keep having to fucking EXPLAIN that I can't do some things I used to do anymore BECAUSE of my body falling apart and not being able to do all the things I used to do.
It's not that I hate getting older, I hate what it brings.........pain, suffering, medical problems, expenses that eat up all of your money, etc..... And I am NOT taking it well at all.
How are YOU taking getting older????



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My dad is in his 70's and is doing quite well. He does have high blood pressure but keeps it under control with meds. He still golfs and works out at the gym.
 
My dad turned 93 last week, my mom is 90. Last year they celebrated 70 years married. They still live alone and he still drives he and mom for grocery shopping and doctors and going out to dinner. My older sister lives about 5 houses away and cooks for them etc.... At around 85 my mom decided she was finally going to retire and not cook anymore!

He was 91 when he finally began to accept that he was getting older. This past year his knees are giving out and he has miss stepped and fallen three times...and now is realizing he can't do what he used to.... And in a way he is still in denial....even though he can't get up out of a restaurant chair without a table and back of chair to help lift him up. He still refuses to use a walker or even a cane....he doesn't want to look old and feeble....he's a real stubborn man!

My mom is still doing good physically, but she does have some dementia, and if you asked what she ate for breakfast or went to the doctor last, she says...let me ask dad. My dad's head is 100% and she has accepted she can't remember and relies on him for those things.

Dad is going to be miserable when his doctor tells him, he can no longer drive. Everything changes at that point, life is over in his head...when that happens....my sister and I don't know what to do, to get him ready for it.

I've been here in Florida the last two months and I can finally see the changes they are going through
It is sad to see so many older people suffering and just makes you realize that life is short and there should be no time for fussing and fighting over trivial things. Even though you and I have different political beliefs I still like you as a person.
 
It is sad to see so many older people suffering and just makes you realize that life is short and there should be no time for fussing and fighting over trivial things. Even though you and I have different political beliefs I still like you as a person.
Same here Blaster! Please know that, when we argue and debate!
 
Try glucosamine/condroiten (Osteobiflex).

It lubricates the joints...did me a world of good...but you need to take it for about 3 months before it starts working.

Also...DON'T take it if you are allergic to shell fish (shrimp, crab, lobster, clams, etc) or if you have any form of diabetes.

Vitamin B-6 helps alot if it's tendon or ligament problems (like carpel tunnel).
Thanks! I bought some glucosamine but I didn't take it very long because I didn't notice a difference. I will reconsider.
 
One thing I find important is to stretch your brain once in a while (use it or lose it).

So I thunk way back to the earliest cartoons or TV shows I can remember & then try to remember the theme song...or something that was said during the show.

So I think back to age 2 or 3...underdog, romper room, hobo kelly, the bugaloose, HR puffinstuff. And then I try to remember things about the shows.

It can be tough to reach that far back...but it IS doable!
 
My dad turned 93 last week, my mom is 90. Last year they celebrated 70 years married. They still live alone and he still drives he and mom for grocery shopping and doctors and going out to dinner. My older sister lives about 5 houses away and cooks for them etc.... At around 85 my mom decided she was finally going to retire and not cook anymore!

He was 91 when he finally began to accept that he was getting older. This past year his knees are giving out and he has miss stepped and fallen three times...and now is realizing he can't do what he used to.... And in a way he is still in denial....even though he can't get up out of a restaurant chair without a table and back of chair to help lift him up. He still refuses to use a walker or even a cane....he doesn't want to look old and feeble....he's a real stubborn man!

My mom is still doing good physically, but she does have some dementia, and if you asked what she ate for breakfast or went to the doctor last, she says...let me ask dad. My dad's head is 100% and she has accepted she can't remember and relies on him for those things.

Dad is going to be miserable when his doctor tells him, he can no longer drive. Everything changes at that point, life is over in his head...when that happens....my sister and I don't know what to do, to get him ready for it.

I've been here in Florida the last two months and I can finally see the changes they are going through
It was sad to see the decline in my parents so I empathize. My Dad went downhill pretty quickly as ultra high blood pressure wrecked his kidneys. My Mother probably would have made it to 100 as some of her relatives did but anxiety drugs were her undoing and she died at 92. The last few years she wasn't even the same person.
 
70 here. 71 in September. I totally retired at my 62nd birthday. Since then, been taking care of our place doing most work myself (including tree work requiring climb with ropes and swiss saddle, repelling down after complete), had an in-ground swimming pool put in, built another fence, an open shed with floor, hiked several mountain trails, skied several slopes in two different states, taking up skiing after retirement for first time, kayaked several rivers in 3 state, multiple class III white water, multiple day and overnight paddles with distances between 25 and 60 miles. I ride my bike, both around town, and day trips 15 to 25 miles. Basically, I do the kinds of things I have always done, but with more care, taking care of myself. I have had major knee surgery, due to a ski accident, but after surgery and intense rehab physical therapy, not only from the professionals, but carried out at the gym, I am a member of, enabling me to get back on the slopes the following year, as well as complete one of those mountain hikes of 11 miles with 4,000 elevation change. It is important to push yourself physically (pain or no pain) if you wish to continue what you like, painfree with similar abilities, but lower pace. All this, and I still get to smoke half a pack (avg) a days, while having no shortness of breath uncontrollable by how I was trained. I sleep without getting up in the night, between 6-9 hours depending on what I have going on and how late I hit the sack. So, Yes, I am officially old, but have no intention of letting it get in my way of the things I enjoy, for the next few years. Physical activity and keeping the mind engaged is the key.
 
Pfft, i could get you rocketing down the road for a fraction of $5k.
Do you really wanna go that fast on something with wheels that small? Is the real question.
If so , there are like 30 mile range haul ass scooter possibilities.
The wheels on that are 12 inches. I'd like something with a wider step on it, as I have big feet.
But for my height and my weight, this is whats available in electric stand up scooters.

I'm not looking to go around town, I just want to be able to be outside for a while in the summer.
Last summer was hard on me, becasue I walk about 60 feet, and I'm "gone". It's going to be worse this summer, because I barely get out to my car and I'm "gone".

I figure if I'm standing up and in motion some how, that will make me feel a lot better without being subject to the instant wash out feeling I get when trying to walk a bit.
 
70 here. 71 in September. I totally retired at my 62nd birthday. Since then, been taking care of our place doing most work myself (including tree work requiring climb with ropes and swiss saddle, repelling down after complete), had an in-ground swimming pool put in, built another fence, an open shed with floor, hiked several mountain trails, skied several slopes in two different states, taking up skiing after retirement for first time, kayaked several rivers in 3 state, multiple class III white water, multiple day and overnight paddles with distances between 25 and 60 miles. I ride my bike, both around town, and day trips 15 to 25 miles. Basically, I do the kinds of things I have always done, but with more care, taking care of myself. I have had major knee surgery, due to a ski accident, but after surgery and intense rehab physical therapy, not only from the professionals, but carried out at the gym, I am a member of, enabling me to get back on the slopes the following year, as well as complete one of those mountain hikes of 11 miles with 4,000 elevation change. It is important to push yourself physically (pain or no pain) if you wish to continue what you like, painfree with similar abilities, but lower pace. All this, and I still get to smoke half a pack (avg) a days, while having no shortness of breath uncontrollable by how I was trained. I sleep without getting up in the night, between 6-9 hours depending on what I have going on and how late I hit the sack. So, Yes, I am officially old, but have no intention of letting it get in my way of the things I enjoy, for the next few years. Physical activity and keeping the mind engaged is the key.
I still work, but I despise the corrupt companies that are so flagrantly using and abusing employees, and raping us for petty wages.
And dont say "find antoher job", because ALL companies are like this now. Besides, it takes YEARS to find another job nowadays with all the bullshit, lies, hypocrisy, and mind games you have to go thru.

I live in an upstairs apartment, so it's getting difficult for me to get upstairs and downstairs. I'm waiting for a downstairs apartment to become available. But don't know when that will be.

I've lived from paycheck to paycheck all of my life, because of the corrupt companies and greedy politicians. Anytime I've tried to make things better for myself, the whole world blows up in my face. So I just stopped trying.

Tried for 15-20 years to get my own bakery, and nothing worked. So just finally gave up on that as well.

The meds I take keep me from losing weight, but make it easy to gain weight. I take Ozempic to keep from gaining too much weight, otherwise I'd be 1000 pounds by now. I only eat once a day now, and still can't lose weight.

I've been to all sorts of specialists that can't find anything wrong with my legs, except for knee arthritis. I got one more to go to for neurology, but that wont be for two more months.

Theres lots of history in my family of back problems, osteo-arthritis, and tons of other stuff, so I'm dreading that.
I hate feeling like I can go out and walk around town and stay outside all day like I used to, but there is no way I can, without help now. And help is expensive.

I was bringing in groceries the other day and my knees just gave out and went down on my face and knees. Took me 15-20 minutes to be able to get up again. Then took me about 30 minutes to get up one flight of stairs.

I DESPISE GETTING OLD!!!!
 
I’ll fight it as long as I’m able.
 
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The wheels on that are 12 inches. I'd like something with a wider step on it, as I have big feet.
But for my height and my weight, this is whats available in electric stand up scooters.

I'm not looking to go around town, I just want to be able to be outside for a while in the summer.
Last summer was hard on me, becasue I walk about 60 feet, and I'm "gone". It's going to be worse this summer, because I barely get out to my car and I'm "gone".

I figure if I'm standing up and in motion some how, that will make me feel a lot better without being subject to the instant wash out feeling I get when trying to walk a bit.
Scooter'll dump you off real quick.
 
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