As I said before, I use the Bible as a guide for what is right and wrong, and in my opinion it is quite clear that oral and anal sex are to be considered perverted and therefore sinful. I have attempted to describe tactfully what “face to face” means to me, and you two simply refuse to let it go at that, instead wanting to be cute and turn this thread into a discussion about specific sex acts.
Perverted heterosexual sex and homosexual sex and both sins. However sins are relative, and homosexuality is among the worst of the sins out there. Far worse than something you might do with your lover in the privacy of your own bedroom. The reason is that the beginning of homosexuality is documented in Genesis 9:20-25, and it has caused a rift in mankind ever since. In contemporary history, it has manifested itself into the AIDS epidemic, causing misery, death and pain among literally hundreds of millions of people.