WorldWatcher
Platinum Member
My approach to all that is simple....Let them fight!
Everything I own is paid for and they will do very, very, well even with the tax hit.
Sure I try to keep as much from the tax man as I can and hire those that see to it but when the wife and I are taking our dirt nap I won't be in a position to care one way or the other.
My wife was the Executor for her Mom's estate.
The "let them fight" mentality has fractured the relatioships between the siblings. We're committed to NOT letting that happen again.
Facts:
- Federal Estate Tax kick in at around $13 Million for an individual ($27+ Million for a married couple).
- Viginia Estate Tax? Doesn't have one.
- Probate? There is a 1% probate fee and then of course the cost of attoneys'.
- All "Post Tax" assets transfer without taxes.
- Pre-tax assets (401K, 403B, 457, IRA, TSP type accounts) are taxed as "income" for the non-spousal beneficiay and there is a "10 Year Rule" allowing distributions to be income average over that period.
- Post Tax Accounts: All have the children (both in mid-30's) designated as secondary beneficiaries at 50% with POD (Pay on Death).
- Pre Tax Accounts: All have the children (both in mid-30's) designated as secondary beneficiaries at 50%.
- House: We each have "Right of Survivorship" on the house, and the childrlen receive the house 50% each with TOD (Transfer on Death). Which keeps the house out of probate.
- Vehicles: We each have "Right of Survivorship" on the cars, and one child is designated with TOD (Transfer on Death). (You can only do sole survivor on vehciles in Virginia with a TOD title - which keeps the cars our ot probate.)