The American family is resisting this effort, and people like Joe is working hard to bring forth the new thinking that will expose people to many unseen things in which we have seen a great preview of over the last 30 years or more, and so here we have Joe who ignores all that is bad, and that has happened or is happening still no matter. He is like a devil himself trying to destroy or shut down peoples defense systems in order that he open the door for his ilk to sit down at the table, even if they are not welcome at the table because of their anti-family stance in which they have.
These people can't stand rejection, so they seek to break down the family in order to be accepted, and they do this even if they themselves know that they are wrong in their lives, but they can't be rejected no, and they refuse to change so they try and change others instead.
If you truly believe this drivel, you have been completely brainwashed by religious conservatives. I don't know a single human being who is "anti-family", but the religious right has a particularly narrow and destructive concept of what marriage really is. The idea that a husband sits at the head of the family, with a dutiful, subserviant wife, and two adoring children, is at best, a myth, and at worst, a cruel hoax. Many of the divorces you decry as an assault on the family, are in fact failures to achieve this mythic idealized family.
If the so-called "traditional family" was the rock solid be all and end all that you perceive it to be, it wouldn't need to be so vigorously defended because it would be strong and resilliant, and it's worth would be self-evident. In fact such families are really quite brittle and break apart easily, precisely because the members have such static roles that they cannot adapt or respond to the winds of change or the unheavals of illness, infidelity or financial misfortune.
But the families are the created and formed from people who are connected through bonds of love and/or blood, are often far stronger and more resilliant precisely because the members of that family are not forced into predetermined roles which their emotional make-up or their intellect makes them incapable of taking on. The wife can take over breadwinner duties when called upon, and the husband can stay at home because neither are locked into the idea that he is a lesser man because he's not the breadwinner.
I've seen men thrown in depression or become bitter because their wife earns more money than them. I've seen other families where it doesn't matter who makes the money, because both the husband and wife prosper and thrive because one of them is making a good living. Not every man is suited to being the chief bread winner and head of the household. Not every woman is subserviant.
Yes you are right in the sense of the biological make up of the many American families that exist in this nation anymore, but what has caused the breakdown or the break up of the more traditional family (dad, mom, brother and sister), and their traditional values , a key word that was once held by them is what I'm getting at.
And why is this that they are recreated in this way ? It is because of the breakdown of society under pressure that was coming in from many points, in which were designed specifically by those who hated the tradition strength created by the values held in the traditional family, so they attacked and it was on, and it has been on for a very long time now ever since.
Infidelity is a big cause of marriage breakdown. One partner or the other strays which breaks the trust the couple has, or the unfaithful partner falls in love with his/her new partner and leaves the marriage. 22% of husbands and 14% of wives admit to cheating. The sad statistic is that 69% of marriages where cheating occurs, end in divorce. Now it can reasonably be argued that there had to be something lacking in the marriage for the partner to look elsewhere, and I would tend to agree, but unless the rift can be healed, the marriage is headed for trouble.
Another big cause of marriage breakdown is financial difficulties, either due to unemployment or bad management. Such difficulties stress a marriage and unless the partners can pull together and be flexible in finding solutions to the problem, the marriage may not last.
Marriages don't break down because of assault by outside factors as you suggest, but rather from problems within the marriage structure itself. Differences in core values, expectations, and rigidity in roles.
I think that it's very telling how very important that marriage is as a form of long-term commitment and security between couples that gays yearn so fervently to be married to their partners. Allowing gays to marry doesn't weaken traditional marriages, it actually strengthens them, and reinforces the value of marriage and family to an individual's emotional well-being.
The Bible says that marriage sanctifies the bond between the husband and the wife. It also sanctifies between any couple who is prepared to make the commitment.