Anarchy is social evolution at its finest, if you have the power or resources to defend yourself you will survive, those without the resources will be killed off by those with it. The only rule that fits anarchy is "might makes right".
Your worldview is skewed, which is no surprise, as there is a purposeful effort in place to accomplish this. Media has warped your perception, as it has to all of us, but if you understood the primacy of individual experience, you would not feel as you do. When you walk around a grocery store, are you under the impression that if not for law, those people would just be knocking each other over, and shooting each other in the face to be first in line? Who are these people that you think are going to be attacking your home every five minutes? Do you understand how minuscule, percentage-wise, aggressors are in our society?
There's about 2.2 million people in prison right now. Considering that many of them are wrongly imprisoned for non-aggressive, victimless crimes, and that many people have not been caught or imprisoned for their crimes, let's allow those two groups to cancel each other out and stick with the 2.2 million figure. There are 325 million people in the U.S., which gives us a ballpark figure of 0.007% of people being aggressors. Considering the established
fact that defense, not a lofty respect for law, is the only real deterrent, and that defense is stronger in a free society, where resides the valid foothold for your concerns about violent chaos in a free society? You have bought into a purposeful con; a lie designed specifically for your enslavement.
You have no concept of:
- Human nature
- What anarchy is
- How infringement on freedom is the only evil
- The effects of cultural indoctrination
- Why external authority is slavery
- How aggression and defense are antithetical
- Why law exists
- What natural law is
- Your inherent self-ownership
- How all mankind's positive progress is derived from the natural order of freedom, in spite of (not because of) external authority.
This is not an insult. I can make a list much longer than this of things I have no concept of, but none of the above are on that list. Since the above represents the topic of discussion here, you are at a distinct disadvantage. No shame in it, but you must admit (at least to yourself) that you're not in a position to opine on this topic with clarity. So why not earnestly seek an understanding, instead of holding firm to an uninformed position?