The huge majority of gays do not do that or want that at all. Let's not demonize people who are just living their lives and are not pushing any kind of sociopolitical or 'woke' agenda. The gay people who have been and/or are in my life are for the most part indistinguishable from routine normal society. They are not at all secretive about it, but they don't focus on or feel the need to announce their sexual orientation any more than heterosexual people do.
It is the sick 'woke' group--gay, straight or whatever--pushing inappropriate curriculum and entertainment on kids who are supporting, even demanding such evil. The words and actions of those I will continue to and always will condemn as evil. The vast majority of gay people do not support those.