I didn't accuse you of having made such a blanket statement. It was a comment on the back of yours.
People tend to talk about the 'rich' as though the rich do not deserve wealth. They assume all wealthy people are selfish, uncaring and achieve wealth on the backs of poor people. This crap is repeated time and time again - certainly the OP has commented on such. My point.... 'rich' people are people - just like 'poor' people are people. We should treat people as individuals. When the healthcare debate was raging, we saw lots and lots of sad stories about individuals let down by the system. Well, there are also vast numbers of people whose lives were saved by that same system. It is the same with the constant debate about the inequality of 'rich' and 'poor'. I feel no need to apologize for coming from a 'wealthy' background. I'm not ashamed of the blood, sweat and tears of my parents. They have sacrificed and worked hard and because of that, they are what most people would deem 'wealthy'. But, instead of respecting someone like my dad for achieving the 'American Dream', apparently some people think he should pay for the rest of you.
On the other hand, I know exactly what it feels like to be poor as a kid. And I know wht it feels like as an adult to have no money in hand, no money in the bank, and little or no food in the house. I know what it means to have bill collectors calling at all hours, dreading to pick up the mail, and wondering if we will be able to float checks long enough to keep the electricity from being turned off. I know what its like to have to choose between feeding my kid and buying him a tiny Easter basket like all the other kids had for the Easter egg hunt. (I made the basket and if he cared what it looked like, he didn't let on.)
That period of our life didn't last long--we took work where we could get it--sometimes really crappy work--but within a year or so we dug ourselves out of that hole and managed to prosper. I don't regret the experience either, because it educated me in a way that could not have happened any other way.
So do I despise the rich? No way in hell. I know what most went through in order to become rich. And everybody in America has the same opportunity to reach for that brass ring. I look at one friend whose family included a wife and five kids who lived on oatmeal three meals a day for six months while he was on a tiny training salary. He went on to make up for that time and put every one of those kids through college. And every one of them appreciated what they have a whole lot.
So my kids don't remember ever being poor and, while we never made it all the way to rich, we have been able to provide them with every opportunity to prosper themselves. Should they be despised or penalized or punished or denied anything because they aren't as poor as other kids? It sure isn't their fault, and if we can't work to benefit our own, what are we working for? If we can't work to benefit ourselves what are we working for?