Judge them to what end? No one is going to make the single mom give up her children to a 'better' set of parents.
I think it is important for people to have good information when making decisions.
IMO, the vast myth that Single Moms are just as good as the Traditional Family has led millions of women to make bad choices and screw up their lives.
Nobody says that. In fact, all studies show that children do best in two PARENT households.
Single mothers 'do just as good a job as couples'
Fail.
Your post doesn't disprove what I said. Children do best in homes with two parents. That's undisputed.
Remember the way Dan Quayle was savaged by the media for slamming Murphy Brown?
Here is what he said that outraged the pop culture talking heads.
"Bearing babies irresponsibly is simply wrong. Failing to support children one has fathered is wrong and we must be unequivocal about this. It doesn’t help matters when primetime TV has Murphy Brown, a character who supposedly epitomizes today’s intelligent, highly paid professional woman, mocking the importance of fathers by bearing a child alone and calling it just another lifestyle choice. I know it’s not fashionable to talk about moral values, but we need to do it! Even though our cultural leaders in Hollywood, network TV and the national newspapers routinely jeer at them, I think most of us in this room know that some things are good and other things are wrong. And now, it’s time to make the discussion public. It’s time to talk again about the family, hard work, integrity and personal responsibility. We cannot be embarrassed out of our belief that two parents married to each other are better, in most cases, for children than one."
He was figuratively lynched in the media for speaking this heresy.