This stuff is disgusting and due to religious beliefs. Good thing we keep a check on them here in the States.
Dear
ChrisL
Sexism and bullying/abuse of women runs deeper than religion.
When people are conditioned to respond that way, it is
spiritual
social
environmental
psychological
cultural
personal.
Any number of these layers can be EXPRESSED through religion,
but it is embedded in someone's psyche.
The therapies that have proven successful in undoing these layers of conditioning
and bringing about HEALING and TRANSFORMATION
are based on FORGIVENESS and LETTING GO
of past resentment and conditioning. It's a lot harder to change, and it takes a lot of
compassion and being in a SAFE healing environment before such deep changes
can take place. It's a lot easier to project blame pain and rage as a barrier to change,
and that's a lot of the reason this abuse and persecution continues because it is easier
to project the need for "change and control outside ourselves" (ie onto an easier target
by bullying a weaker person) than trying to change the root patterns of behavior.
I have never seen one case of someone healing and changing by being
judged, rejected and punished and blamed which normally brings about
MORE defensiveness, denial and rebellion. This is harder for MEN to change in a society that expects men to be unchanging, and paints them as weak if they back down after they've publicly taken a stance. So we set ourselves up to fail, and "make it worse" by blaming and attacking, which makes men like these hold even stronger to their ways as a defense.
ChrisL have you ever met men who would AGREE to change after being
blamed and attacked for their religious or political beliefs? No, of course not!
It has the OPPOSITE effect of making them cling MORE to PROVE their ways are right.
So this is self-defeating.
The most I've seen is the "drill sergeant" approach to yelling down
kids and breaking them down like wild mustangs until they were crying and begging like babies
and then they were open to listening, obeying and complying with authority.
But that takes addressing each person INDIVIDUALLY.
It does NOT work to try to yell down an entire group,
such as across the internet, and think that's going to change anything.
The only chance we have is to address people one on one to have an effect on each other.
And
ChrisL if you don't take to changing or correcting anything
when someone is in your face, blaming the world's problems on YOU and YOUR BELIEFS
what makes you think that is going to influence change
for you or me to do that?
To point to something and say that is the fault of X Y Z group collectively, but not me.
Again the only effective change I've seen is when people point out
MUTUAL points of correction, things we can change TOGETHER.
So how can we do that here?
How can we address this problem of judging/punishing someone without due process?
Do you see my point, we cannot go around condemning people based on our judgment,
without going through the process of addressing each person INDIVIDUALLY with
the exact charges or wrongs that particular person is accused of doing, and giving
them a chance to answer for themselves. If we go ahead and assume "all people of
that religious group are guilty" and therefore anyone WE associate with that group is at fault,
that's a lesser version of stoning someone without first proving what they were guilty
of and giving them a chance to correct the problem first.
So if everyone does this, in one form or degree or another,
aren't we all guilty of contributing to "casting stones" at each other without due process?