Oh there is so much to say here..............
One: Yes a man almost always pays for it. How much? Almost all of it if he's married.......
Two: Yes it is true that a woman can get sex nearly whenever she wants. But quality sex is a whole different story.....
No, a man is not almost always paying for sex. If you are spending money on a woman with the expectation of receiving sex in exchange for the expenditure, then you aren't much better than a pimp and you are treating her like a whore. You will never be equals in such a relationship.
If you spend money on someone, it should be because you happen to have more of it than they do and you do it out of love, not for some quid pro quo. She is an equal you love. Treat her that way.
When you say you always pay for sex, consider the inverse you are implying. You are saying your woman gives up her vagina for money.
That is an incredibly ugly thing to say about someone you allegedly love.
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