Which is Most Important in a Wife/Spouse?

[Bonzi]

Which of these 3 things ONLY are MOST important for you for a spouse to have as a strong quality?

(1) Cooking Skills
(2) Housekeeping Skills
(3) Financial/Bookkeeping Skills

Let's assume they are very weak and/or lacking in the other 2.......

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Would say willingness more than skill. Have skill at cleaning, I just choose not to exercise it most of the time. But if she did.

 

[JakeStarkey]

Willingness to learn financial skills and then using them will ease the burden of cleaning and cooking.

I love to cook!

 

[Bonzi]

Some people it just comes naturally - anyone can be willing to be good at them all. I am, but, I'm not really naturally good at any of them. It's all a struggle.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Cleaning to m always invokes 'definition of insanity is repeating an identical action expecting a different result.'

If it's just gonna get dirty again...

 

[Bonzi]

Willingness to learn financial skills and then using them will ease the burden of cleaning and cooking.

I love to cook!

shut up.... so jealous....

 

[JakeStarkey]

That's why domestics are important to the economy: at least ours.

 

[Bonzi]

Definitely cooking for me.

I love to eat and I'm not that picky... I'd love a surprise feast every night, and would gladly keep the place spotless and the bank account too in exchange.....

 

[Indeependent]

Must eat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[JakeStarkey]

Willingness to learn financial skills and then using them will ease the burden of cleaning and cooking.

I love to cook!

shut up.... so jealous....

Bonzi, you know you look good in your little apron.

 

[Bonzi]

Willingness to learn financial skills and then using them will ease the burden of cleaning and cooking.

I love to cook!

shut up.... so jealous....

Bonzi, you know you look good in your little apron.

... don't make me go there Jake....

 

[Unkotare]

None of the above.

 

[Bonzi]

None of the above.

Why are you ALWAYS the contrarian....? WHY!!!!?????

 

[JakeStarkey]

Willingness to learn financial skills and then using them will ease the burden of cleaning and cooking.

I love to cook!

shut up.... so jealous....

Bonzi, you know you look good in your little apron.

... don't make me go there Jake....

And your French maid outfit. Or your accountant get up with your hair in a bun and wearing horned rim eye glasses. Ah, if only they were aware of the smouldering Bonzi inside.

 

[Unkotare]

None of the above.

Why are you ALWAYS the contrarian....? WHY!!!!?????

Just trying to respond honestly. A spouse is about love, not 'finding' a cook, a housekeeper, or an accountant.

 

[Bonzi]

Willingness to learn financial skills and then using them will ease the burden of cleaning and cooking.

I love to cook!

shut up.... so jealous....

Bonzi, you know you look good in your little apron.

... don't make me go there Jake....

And your French maid outfit. Or your accountant get up with your hair in a bun and wearing horned rim eye glasses. Ah, if only they were aware of the smouldering Bonzi inside.

Jake... I can't believe you.... shame shame!

 

[Anathema]

Cooking. It's easier to teach cleaning and finances are not a woman's place in the world.

 

[mdk]

Sadly, none of the choices apply but if I had to choose it would be financial skills.

 

[Bonzi]

None of the above.

Why are you ALWAYS the contrarian....? WHY!!!!?????

Just trying to respond honestly. A spouse is about love, not 'finding' a cook, a housekeeper, or an accountant.

Well that is a GIVEN ! I'm just saying of these 3 specific things, which would be most important or even preferential for your spouse to be excellent at? Of course we want to love, adore and be attracted to our mate!

 

[idb]

Which of these 3 things ONLY are MOST important for you for a spouse to have as a strong quality?

(1) Cooking Skills
(2) Housekeeping Skills
(3) Financial/Bookkeeping Skills

Let's assume they are very weak and/or lacking in the other 2.......

Are you doing interviews?