My oldest son has high functioning autism. He completed a two year degree at DeVry University with honors. It's been months and he still can't find a job. I've stopped charging room and board so he can use that money to pay off his student loans. The problem? It's money for his disability and is not suppose to be used to pay off student loans, it's suppose to be used for his living expenses. I'm not good at lying in fact I'm lousy at it but I feel an obligation to get those loans paid off. What if he never gets a job? The truth is that they can't legally come after his disability for those loans but that doesn't negate his responsibility to pay them off. Since he's my son, I feel that responsibility as well, my parents paid for most of my college. Anyway, what would you do? Use his disability to pay off those loans, or let them wait until or if he gets a job?