aris2chat
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no need for suicide......no need for a back alley abortion......just put the kid up for adoption instead of killing it......nope...Have ever had caviar or roe?
you just encourage it.....I'm not killing the unborn
if you didn't know the eggs we eat are unfertilized, why should I believe you know what the Bible says about life?.....You have a hard time with context. If you read the bible the same way only taking a phrase here and there, no wonder you are so wrong about faith, or life
Not telling women they should have an abortion. I just believe it is their decision, not for strangers to dictate what happens to her body for nine months or the rest of her life.
I think they have the right to make that decision, and it should be a safe clean option, not some back room with a clothes hanger. Nor do I want them to consider suicide because of an unwanted fetus. I want what is best of the woman, she is a living thinking person. A fetus is not, and cannot survive without the woman. If she does not want to carry it, she should not have to.
You fail to understand the part of carrying it for nine months and going through labor. How about the disruption to the woman's life, how it effects her work, her health insurance, her relationships with her family, the need for special diet and nutrition, the effect on her health and ongoing conditions, the need for special clothing, the change in her body and working to get her body back, scaring of her body, swollen legs and feet, time and appointments for OB checkup as well as tests. The emotional effect after giving birth and surrendering a child she is not capable or will to care for.
Only a man would think there is nothing to carrying a child and giving birth for adoption. The screwed up hormones alone, morning sickness and crazy craving at all hour of the day and night along with difficulty sleep, the kicking, the difficult breathing, the pain if it shift to some awkward position, the constant need to go to the bathroom, the distortion of the body and back pain as well as difficulty walking, standing and sitting. What of the breast changes and pain as well as leaking both during and after delivery. I know I went from a 34C to a 44GGG and had to have reduction surgery because of what it was doing to my back after I stopped nursing.
Some women who are not married go through shame and abuse by their church, family and community. Women really are driving to suicide far too often. Some women are actually on bed rest for months before delivery. Women cannot fly and often have travel restriction in the last two months. There are any number of complication that occurs during pregnancy. Women can actually die during child birth. Some women go through 36 or more hours of labor. My daughter went into labor during a hurricane and it was more than a month before electric and water were restored, not easy carrying for a new born in the hospital or at home, which was damaged from the storm. Diapers, food and other supplies were non-existent for a long time and water, dry milk and canned food required hours standing in lines. No gas, no car, no cash, no banks, no credit cards....... What if we had not managed to drive in the dark through the worst of the storm to get her to the hospital that had emergency lights only for the delivery, and no phones or back up for the staff.
You have no idea of what a woman might have to go through or what situation might occur during the nine months. You don't know her mental state, fears, phobias that she might have or develop during the pregnancy. There might be complication because of her age or size. There might be preexisting health issue.
Sure, make the women carry for nine month and give it up for adoption, easy peasy
Are you out of your %^&* head? The women has to make a hard choice, but it should be her choice. I doubt any women take abortion lightly. If that is what is best for her, stay the H out of it.
No one should blankly say she has to carry the fetus and give birth. Every women and situation is unique. She should not be force to do something of that magnitude if she does not want to. No man should make that decision for her, especially one that does not even know her.
Maybe men should consider if they had to live with prostrate cancer for nine month before it could be removed and what complication they might have afterward. A tennis ball size hemorrhoid. A bowling ball size tumor in their stomach. How would they manage for nine month before they could have it remove? Many men are wimps with the flu or some pain. They have no right telling a women what to do with her body.
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