Yarddog
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I totally agree with Asclepias , but by the same token blacks have no clue what it is like to be white. I have had closer connections to some black friend than white ones.
To me here's the difference that so many.....including Asclepias (it appears), think and see race to much. We are all people. We all hurt, we all bleed, we all laugh, and we all cry.
No one is any better than the other.
The Problem with Asclepias is that he's always talking in absolutes, and pretty much believes 'Whites' think in absolutes as though they were a penguin colony or something. Of course, myself growing up in a mixed race
family and extended family, I will never agree with his outlook, though he is correct about many historical things.
Having spent months in Kenya and Tanzania I tried to pay attention to my own weakness of thought and it was a good exercize. When being one of very few whites for just that short amount of time, It was easy to let my mind play tricks on myself. In that situation, one can imagine what other people around them are thinking, "are they judging me?" type thoughts. It's very easy to do, and while it is more complex than that, I think i got a very small
sample size of what blacks might feel in the US.
Sometimes those questions in my mind were true, but I'm pretty sure it was mostly imagined, our minds are very powerful and it's easy to attribute false motives to other people's actions based on our own phsycosis. I think all
people sadly are vulnerable to this and American Blacks are no exception and it can mess up relationships as well.
Not to take away from documented atrocities commited against blacks at all though, I'm talking more in the relationship sense.