Where do you want to start in Christianity 101?How can there be a father/son relationship in the upstairs if there is no mother? Who was Jesus' mother? If you want to anthropomorophize some concept you have to do it all the way. Creating a "son" must involve both a male entity and a female entity. Don't give me just Mary, she only helped bring Jesus into the world in human form. I'm talking about the celestial being known as Jesus' mom. Who is she? Did she rebuke her husband for sending their child on a painful mission solely for her husband's ego?
But only if you stop using trying to compartmentalize God Into your terms.