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What's the worst thing a friend can do to you?
For me it's always been lying, small (white) lies I don't really mind that much. The kind that if you just got a hair cut and you kinda know you look goofy and they say, "ya, looks good", as they turn away and roll their eyes.....
But lie to me about something of importance and your history, in the archives, gone...
Destroy my faith in them, and my faith in the friendship... Faith isn't something I just "have", and it takes a long time to develop, given the overall nature of "humans". To have it just thrown aside is an emotional breaking point for me..even moreso than lies.
but isn't someone telling you the truth one of the ways they maintain your faith?
It depends on the nature of the lie, and the reason for the lie... In *true* friendship, you stand by that friend unconditionally. A single instance of a lie is never enough to sever something that important without looking in to the how's and why's as well as other contributing factors.
You don't just give up on your friends unless all avenues have been completely exhausted...and even then it's hard if it's a true good times, bad times, ups, downs, etc. friend, and not some passing acquaintance you just see a few times a week..