BDBoop
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Clueless about women? HAHAHAHAHA! Are you seriously telling me alot of women don't want the happily ever after big wedding when they get married?
Dude?? I SAID "Which one of us?"
And you didn't answer. Do you really believe they are all as Machiavellian as you paint them? They all want a big wedding. They all want to suck the life out of a man. They all only want to trap him, use him, and throw him back out in his skivvies. Or might you be generalizing a tad bit much.
Whoa, no one said women are all out to trap, use, suck the life out of, or throw away a man when they marry him. But they DO tend to chase that big fairy tale wedding. I swear, it's like they think that wedding in and of itself is somehow integral to the future of their relationship. Imagine most women's responses if the man says lets get married, but let's just go down to the justice of the peace and make it official there and that's it. Seriously. You know how most women would respond.
It's not the marriage, it's the WEDDING. Women would actually take offense to a man saying let's just do it bare minimum legally.
Maybe I'm the problem in this equation, because I see things from my perspective, and I know that's not what happened. We did the bare minimum, because that's what I wanted. I wanted a MARRIAGE, not a Big Day. That's how every wedding in my family has been. Bride and groom paid for, and no going broke over it. My engagement ring cost $12 at an antique store. It was a little daisy with a pink stone set in pewter.
The only big wedding I've ever been to was my cousin's first, and that was ... whoa. Crazy, the level of conspicuous consumption.