Racist gym employee

[SassyIrishLass]

Is everyone here white.

White people always ignore the facts That expose them and cherry pick every thing they argue and always miss the point.

I said they let white kids in when they don't have money usually because they didn't know and forgot it and tell them to pay next time

Second, I've been there 5 years and have brought a lot of new clients as well..

The issue is this. They should have understood I didn't bring any money, ive been paying $50 for 5 years basically $6,000 and they could have told me pay it back next time or get a membership next time you come in as your card had issues since I replaced my card.

Instead she gave me attitude said I don't care you took an uber 10 minutes ands were looking forward to use the gym or the fact you've given us $6,000, we still want to charge you $10 now and don't care if you'll appreciate it and come back with money next time instead of get a membership at another gym because everyone working here is a racist ****.

But or course white people here don't understand the long uber drive here, that I wasn't aware my card didn't go through, that I didn't have money, that I'm a long customer that has paid $6,000 and the 5 other people I've signed up probably are an additional $20,000. No, none of that mstters just your $10 now and me never coming again and telling everyone I signed up and my 50 friends there to sing up with me at 24 hour fitness,

That's the stupidity of white folk they don't care if you're not white.. Not being white means they can be rude to you and not care since you don't look like their son or nephew or their family or friends kid and probably aren't related to one of them either to make them call you upsrt at you

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

White people here dont want to acknowledge the hypocrisy because the vast majority of them are hypcorits and racist themselves. There are very few Blacks on here. There are some whites on here that have sense even if there are not that many.

Or some noob made up a whopper to claim racism

 

[Dave2770]

So I go to this gym for like 5 years in a place where all the celebrities and athkeests and rappers live in la. Basically it's a community center with a gym and basketball courts and shit.

Anyway im Armenian but my skin tone is that of a really light skinned brother

So I hit up my gym after a few absent weeks and this Older white lady and the manager who's also white and for years always talked down to me and just was plain weird and I could tell she was just racist.

Anyway my card had been declined for the month and I took an uber to get there cu my whip in the shop.

Anyway she declined again for the 3rd time to let me in for the day instead of dropping $10 as I didn't have cash or card on me anyway to use the gym and pay the membership next time I came in.

I've seen them find ways to let white kids in when they have similar issues but not me and they always be talking to me in such a racist tone.. If yall death with racists you know what I mean.

So I said when leaving "sometimes I wish I was white American" and I would have an easier lifeL.. Then she flips out saying what did i say. She then gets angry saying "how dare you call me racist bla bla" saying I pulled the race card. She then points finger at me, the even more racist manager gets in my face and goes crazy too. Mind you in a 5 year long customer.. I'm like I didn't call you racist or imply it and know you're not, so why you getting all angry if you aren't. She just goes crazy threatens to call the cops when I was like I said ok im leaving and started walking away with no comment as soon as you said leave.. But she threatens me while I'm leaving and am by the door "if you don't leave the building in 5 min in calling the police" im like call them im already leaving. Then she goes real crazy and says im "not allowed" to come while she's working there or shell call the cops. I'm like are you fuking serious.. What a joke..

I mean these racists have always hated on me and I told them that they proved my point. How you gonna put words in my mouth and say I called you racist when I didn't and then handle the situation like that and needlessly threaten me and tell me when you work there you'll call the cops if you see me.

These people are a joke. Any brothers and sisters and white people here can confirm that they are racist? First of all I only said I wish i was white American sometimes (and Btw don't get it twisted id Kill myself if I was white oh he'll no I love being darker skinned makes my strength, spirit, love, energy, and confidence so much higher naturally)...but if someone isn't racist shouldn't they just be chill and calm and say "no its just policy it's not about race" and just be calm. The fact they flipped out and threatened cops over a belief I made and never insulted them even and went so crazy just proved my point and I even told them.

Anyone else agree or know what I'm talking about or been through this? Would yall agree she took it too far, or was clearly racist or would yall say I was wrong about what I said?

So, you didn't have money and your credit card was declined?

Got it. You're a scamming deadbeat looking for a free ride. This has nothing to do with racism.

Oh look. A typical racist white response. You literally ignore everything and cherry picked one thing and completely and purposely missed the point..it appears you don't understand the fact my card was declined because I had replaced it and I wasn't aware of that. I also didn't bring money as I didn't feel I need to bring any as I thought I had a membership.

Let's say I was scamming. You don't call the white kids deadbeat when they are getting free Entrances for having the same situation I did. Why didn't you focus oN calling out her letting whites in for being in the same situation versus me?

Lol you call me deadbeat? I'll bet anything I pay more in tax each year Than you you make in a year pussy

 

[IM2]

Is everyone here white.

White people always ignore the facts That expose them and cherry pick every thing they argue and always miss the point.

I said they let white kids in when they don't have money usually because they didn't know and forgot it and tell them to pay next time

Second, I've been there 5 years and have brought a lot of new clients as well..

The issue is this. They should have understood I didn't bring any money, ive been paying $50 for 5 years basically $6,000 and they could have told me pay it back next time or get a membership next time you come in as your card had issues since I replaced my card.

Instead she gave me attitude said I don't care you took an uber 10 minutes ands were looking forward to use the gym or the fact you've given us $6,000, we still want to charge you $10 now and don't care if you'll appreciate it and come back with money next time instead of get a membership at another gym because everyone working here is a racist ****.

But or course white people here don't understand the long uber drive here, that I wasn't aware my card didn't go through, that I didn't have money, that I'm a long customer that has paid $6,000 and the 5 other people I've signed up probably are an additional $20,000. No, none of that mstters just your $10 now and me never coming again and telling everyone I signed up and my 50 friends there to sing up with me at 24 hour fitness,

That's the stupidity of white folk they don't care if you're not white.. Not being white means they can be rude to you and not care since you don't look like their son or nephew or their family or friends kid and probably aren't related to one of them either to make them call you upsrt at you

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

White people here dont want to acknowledge the hypocrisy because the vast majority of them are hypcorits and racist themselves. There are very few Blacks on here. There are some whites on here that have sense even if there are not that many.

Or some noob made up a whopper to claim racism

I laugh at white women so stupid as this one.

 

[SweetSue92]

So I go to this gym for like 5 years in a place where all the celebrities and athkeests and rappers live in la. Basically it's a community center with a gym and basketball courts and shit.

Anyway im Armenian but my skin tone is that of a really light skinned brother

So I hit up my gym after a few absent weeks and this Older white lady and the manager who's also white and for years always talked down to me and just was plain weird and I could tell she was just racist.

Anyway my card had been declined for the month and I took an uber to get there cu my whip in the shop.

Anyway she declined again for the 3rd time to let me in for the day instead of dropping $10 as I didn't have cash or card on me anyway to use the gym and pay the membership next time I came in.

I've seen them find ways to let white kids in when they have similar issues but not me and they always be talking to me in such a racist tone.. If yall death with racists you know what I mean.

So I said when leaving "sometimes I wish I was white American" and I would have an easier lifeL.. Then she flips out saying what did i say. She then gets angry saying "how dare you call me racist bla bla" saying I pulled the race card. She then points finger at me, the even more racist manager gets in my face and goes crazy too. Mind you in a 5 year long customer.. I'm like I didn't call you racist or imply it and know you're not, so why you getting all angry if you aren't. She just goes crazy threatens to call the cops when I was like I said ok im leaving and started walking away with no comment as soon as you said leave.. But she threatens me while I'm leaving and am by the door "if you don't leave the building in 5 min in calling the police" im like call them im already leaving. Then she goes real crazy and says im "not allowed" to come while she's working there or shell call the cops. I'm like are you fuking serious.. What a joke..

I mean these racists have always hated on me and I told them that they proved my point. How you gonna put words in my mouth and say I called you racist when I didn't and then handle the situation like that and needlessly threaten me and tell me when you work there you'll call the cops if you see me.

These people are a joke. Any brothers and sisters and white people here can confirm that they are racist? First of all I only said I wish i was white American sometimes (and Btw don't get it twisted id Kill myself if I was white oh he'll no I love being darker skinned makes my strength, spirit, love, energy, and confidence so much higher naturally)...but if someone isn't racist shouldn't they just be chill and calm and say "no its just policy it's not about race" and just be calm. The fact they flipped out and threatened cops over a belief I made and never insulted them even and went so crazy just proved my point and I even told them.

Anyone else agree or know what I'm talking about or been through this? Would yall agree she took it too far, or was clearly racist or would yall say I was wrong about what I said?

This is not a race problem. It is an American problem, a pervasive problem in society. It is You Owe Me.

It's ruining us everywhere. I walked in your shop, You Owe Me. I'm a paying customer, or I've been one in the past, You Owe Me.

More and more every blessed day, we are fulfilled this verse:

"But understand this: that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeaseable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness but denying its power. Avoid such people."--2 Timothy 3:1-5

That is us. God help us

 

[NewsVine_Mariyam]

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

There is a whole long laundrey list of things that black people were not supposed to do to white people. These are just a few off the top of my head

Back when segregation ruled the land

• look them in the eye
• address them as anything other than Sir or Ma'am
• supposed to step off of the sidewalk or cross the street in order to let them pass or have the sidewalk
• whistle
  
• behave in any way that could be miscontrued as being disrespectful especially towards white women

In modern day America some of these still apply.

• not contradict them
• not correct them
• not challenge them even when they
  • falsely accuse you of an act or crime
  • are clearly wrong, mistaken, or just being malicious
    
  • are ignorant of the subject matter on which they profess to be speaking (this especially applies to racism in America)

Then you have an entirely different set of "shall nots" that a black person shall not do to a white person

• file a criminal, civil or administrative complaint against them
• name them as a defendant in a lawsuit
• place them under surveillance
• place them under investigation
• place hands on them to gain physical control of them
• handcuff them
• serve them with legal process
• present evidence against them
• testify against them
• attach their bank accounts
  
• seize their assets
• get their professional licenses revoked
• expose their corrupt, unethical, immoral or criminal behavior,
• etc.

When they start twitching, screaming and having a REALLY bad reaction that is way out of proportion to the things that are occuring and/or being said that's how you know that you've hit a little too close to home. And you're right that it's only a certain class of whites, those who are racist that act this way. I've worked in corporate America for most of my life, most of my bosses/supervisors especially in the begining were white men and several of them were mentors to me. None of them were the least bit intimidated by me or the fact that I was learning from them.

The reactions you've describing are those of people who are insecure and when they start talking shit about calling the police for things that are not a crime, then you know that you've struck a nerve. That's the last and only racist card that they have to play - siccing the police on you.

 

[Natural Citizen]

Shouldn't have said that to her as you were leaving.Because guaranteed you're on bad terms in the future.

Be thankful she didn't call men with guns from the government before you got outta there, we might be reading your obituary because officer safety. It happens.

Sometimes they'll let you in on the off-chance you're expired and sometimes they won't. Depends on how you carry yourself during the course of your membership.

Good advice might be to carry a thin card wallet with a debit/credit card slot and room for a 20 spot.

That way you have money for both the uber and the gym.

 

[SweetSue92]

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

There is a whole long laundrey list of things that black people were not supposed to do to white people. These are just a few off the top of my head

Back when segregation ruled the land

• look them in the eye
• address them as anything other than Sir or Ma'am
• supposed to step off of the sidewalk or cross the street in order to let them pass or have the sidewalk
• whistle
  
• behave in any way that could be miscontrued as being disrespectful especially towards white women

In modern day America some of these still apply.

• not contradict them
• not correct them
• not challenge them even when they
  • falsely accuse you of an act or crime
  • are clearly wrong, mistaken, or just being malicious
    
  • are ignorant of the subject matter on which they profess to be speaking (this especially applies to racism in America)

Then you have an entirely different set of "shall nots" that a black person shall not do to a white person

• file a criminal, civil or administrative complaint against them
• name them as a defendant in a lawsuit
• place them under surveillance
• place them under investigation
• place hands on them to gain physical control of them
• handcuff them
• serve them with legal process
• present evidence against them
• testify against them
• attach their bank accounts
  
• seize their assets
• get their professional licenses revoked
• expose their corrupt, unethical, immoral or criminal behavior,
• etc.

When they start twitching, screaming and having a REALLY bad reaction that is way out of proportion to the things that are occuring and/or being said that's how you know that you've hit a little too close to home. And you're right that it's only a certain class of whites, those who are racist that act this way. I've worked in corporate America for most of my life, most of my bosses/supervisors especially in the begining were white men and several of them were mentors to me. None of them were the least bit intimidated by me or the fact that I was learning from them.

The reactions you've describing are those of people who are insecure and when they start talking shit about calling the police for things that are not a crime, then you know that you've struck a nerve. That's the last and only racist card that they have to play - siccing the police on you.

Um well, I wish some Black people would contradict and confront white people face-to-face, person-to-person, when problems arise, especially in the schools. Instead what some seem prone to do is....call the local news. I mean as first resort, do not seek a solution with the teacher, principal or admin.... call the news. That's not looking in the eye.

 

[IM2]

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

There is a whole long laundrey list of things that black people were not supposed to do to white people. These are just a few off the top of my head

Back when segregation ruled the land

• look them in the eye
• address them as anything other than Sir or Ma'am
• supposed to step off of the sidewalk or cross the street in order to let them pass or have the sidewalk
• whistle
  
• behave in any way that could be miscontrued as being disrespectful especially towards white women

In modern day America some of these still apply.

• not contradict them
• not correct them
• not challenge them even when they
  • falsely accuse you of an act or crime
  • are clearly wrong, mistaken, or just being malicious
    
  • are ignorant of the subject matter on which they profess to be speaking (this especially applies to racism in America)

Then you have an entirely different set of "shall nots" that a black person shall not do to a white person

• file a criminal, civil or administrative complaint against them
• name them as a defendant in a lawsuit
• place them under surveillance
• place them under investigation
• place hands on them to gain physical control of them
• handcuff them
• serve them with legal process
• present evidence against them
• testify against them
• attach their bank accounts
  
• seize their assets
• get their professional licenses revoked
• expose their corrupt, unethical, immoral or criminal behavior,
• etc.

When they start twitching, screaming and having a REALLY bad reaction that is way out of proportion to the things that are occuring and/or being said that's how you know that you've hit a little too close to home. And you're right that it's only a certain class of whites, those who are racist that act this way. I've worked in corporate America for most of my life, most of my bosses/supervisors especially in the begining were white men and several of them were mentors to me. None of them were the least bit intimidated by me or the fact that I was learning from them.

The reactions you've describing are those of people who are insecure and when they start talking shit about calling the police for things that are not a crime, then you know that you've struck a nerve. That's the last and only racist card that they have to play - siccing the police on you.

Um well, I wish some Black people would contradict and confront white people face-to-face, person-to-person, when problems arise, especially in the schools. Instead what some seem prone to do is....call the local news. I mean as first resort, do not seek a solution with the teacher, principal or admin.... call the news. That's not looking in the eye.

We do. Blacks have stood in front of city councils, school boards, state committees, and police boards just to name a few. Whites need to stop denying their racism and work on ending it instead of excusing it, then no one has to go the news. Why do we go to the news? Because of whites like you who don't believe us when we tell you about how we spoke to the people you mention about those things. Don't talk about looking into anyones eyes white woman when you whites cannot honestly look us in the eye and admit how whites a still blatantly practicing racism today.

 

[SweetSue92]

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

There is a whole long laundrey list of things that black people were not supposed to do to white people. These are just a few off the top of my head

Back when segregation ruled the land

• look them in the eye
• address them as anything other than Sir or Ma'am
• supposed to step off of the sidewalk or cross the street in order to let them pass or have the sidewalk
• whistle
  
• behave in any way that could be miscontrued as being disrespectful especially towards white women

In modern day America some of these still apply.

• not contradict them
• not correct them
• not challenge them even when they
  • falsely accuse you of an act or crime
  • are clearly wrong, mistaken, or just being malicious
    
  • are ignorant of the subject matter on which they profess to be speaking (this especially applies to racism in America)

Then you have an entirely different set of "shall nots" that a black person shall not do to a white person

• file a criminal, civil or administrative complaint against them
• name them as a defendant in a lawsuit
• place them under surveillance
• place them under investigation
• place hands on them to gain physical control of them
• handcuff them
• serve them with legal process
• present evidence against them
• testify against them
• attach their bank accounts
  
• seize their assets
• get their professional licenses revoked
• expose their corrupt, unethical, immoral or criminal behavior,
• etc.

When they start twitching, screaming and having a REALLY bad reaction that is way out of proportion to the things that are occuring and/or being said that's how you know that you've hit a little too close to home. And you're right that it's only a certain class of whites, those who are racist that act this way. I've worked in corporate America for most of my life, most of my bosses/supervisors especially in the begining were white men and several of them were mentors to me. None of them were the least bit intimidated by me or the fact that I was learning from them.

The reactions you've describing are those of people who are insecure and when they start talking shit about calling the police for things that are not a crime, then you know that you've struck a nerve. That's the last and only racist card that they have to play - siccing the police on you.

Um well, I wish some Black people would contradict and confront white people face-to-face, person-to-person, when problems arise, especially in the schools. Instead what some seem prone to do is....call the local news. I mean as first resort, do not seek a solution with the teacher, principal or admin.... call the news. That's not looking in the eye.

We do. Blacks have stood in front of city councils, school boards, state committees, and police boards just to name a few. Whites need to stop denying their racism and work on ending it instead of excusing it, then no one has to go the news. Why do we go to the news? Because of whites like you who don't believe us when we tell you about how we spoke to the people you mention about those things. Don't talk about looking into anyones eyes white woman when you whites cannot honestly look us in the eye and admit how whites a still blatantly practicing racism today.

How do you even know the incident about which I'm talking? Black man?

 

[NewsVine_Mariyam]

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

There is a whole long laundrey list of things that black people were not supposed to do to white people. These are just a few off the top of my head

Back when segregation ruled the land

• look them in the eye
• address them as anything other than Sir or Ma'am
• supposed to step off of the sidewalk or cross the street in order to let them pass or have the sidewalk
• whistle
  
• behave in any way that could be miscontrued as being disrespectful especially towards white women

In modern day America some of these still apply.

• not contradict them
• not correct them
• not challenge them even when they
  • falsely accuse you of an act or crime
  • are clearly wrong, mistaken, or just being malicious
    
  • are ignorant of the subject matter on which they profess to be speaking (this especially applies to racism in America)

Then you have an entirely different set of "shall nots" that a black person shall not do to a white person

• file a criminal, civil or administrative complaint against them
• name them as a defendant in a lawsuit
• place them under surveillance
• place them under investigation
• place hands on them to gain physical control of them
• handcuff them
• serve them with legal process
• present evidence against them
• testify against them
• attach their bank accounts
  
• seize their assets
• get their professional licenses revoked
• expose their corrupt, unethical, immoral or criminal behavior,
• etc.

When they start twitching, screaming and having a REALLY bad reaction that is way out of proportion to the things that are occuring and/or being said that's how you know that you've hit a little too close to home. And you're right that it's only a certain class of whites, those who are racist that act this way. I've worked in corporate America for most of my life, most of my bosses/supervisors especially in the begining were white men and several of them were mentors to me. None of them were the least bit intimidated by me or the fact that I was learning from them.

The reactions you've describing are those of people who are insecure and when they start talking shit about calling the police for things that are not a crime, then you know that you've struck a nerve. That's the last and only racist card that they have to play - siccing the police on you.

Um well, I wish some Black people would contradict and confront white people face-to-face, person-to-person, when problems arise, especially in the schools. Instead what some seem prone to do is....call the local news. I mean as first resort, do not seek a solution with the teacher, principal or admin.... call the news. That's not looking in the eye.

So many of us oftentimes do not have the luxury of placing our livlihoods in jeopardy merely to stand up for ourselves and our rights. We've all seen have that movie always ends.

The reason some people go straight to the press is because nothing really happens when they file a complaint with the offending agency/entity, etc. It's sort of like filing a complaint against the police and then having the officers buddy's investigate it - who do you think they're going to side with? Exposure or the threat thereof is oftentimes the only thing that motivates an adverse party to take a complaint seriously.

 

[Natural Citizen]

So, you didn't have money and your credit card was declined?

Got it. You're a scamming deadbeat looking for a free ride. This has nothing to do with racism.

I'm still trying to figure out why has a whip. Who the fuck needs a whip?

 

[SweetSue92]

But i didn't call them racist or imply it. I said I wish I was white. Her reaction was way out of line. Whenever a racist white gets called out they always flip out and try to deny their racism. When a white is truly not racist they don't mind and just remain calm or even laugh, diffusing the tense situation even for the person that says they're racist.. But when they flip like that and star the threats, they're basically trying to defend their racism and execute you for it and make sure you aren't anywhere near them for fear of them getting exposed.

There is a whole long laundrey list of things that black people were not supposed to do to white people. These are just a few off the top of my head

Back when segregation ruled the land

• look them in the eye
• address them as anything other than Sir or Ma'am
• supposed to step off of the sidewalk or cross the street in order to let them pass or have the sidewalk
• whistle
  
• behave in any way that could be miscontrued as being disrespectful especially towards white women

In modern day America some of these still apply.

• not contradict them
• not correct them
• not challenge them even when they
  • falsely accuse you of an act or crime
  • are clearly wrong, mistaken, or just being malicious
    
  • are ignorant of the subject matter on which they profess to be speaking (this especially applies to racism in America)

Then you have an entirely different set of "shall nots" that a black person shall not do to a white person

• file a criminal, civil or administrative complaint against them
• name them as a defendant in a lawsuit
• place them under surveillance
• place them under investigation
• place hands on them to gain physical control of them
• handcuff them
• serve them with legal process
• present evidence against them
• testify against them
• attach their bank accounts
  
• seize their assets
• get their professional licenses revoked
• expose their corrupt, unethical, immoral or criminal behavior,
• etc.

When they start twitching, screaming and having a REALLY bad reaction that is way out of proportion to the things that are occuring and/or being said that's how you know that you've hit a little too close to home. And you're right that it's only a certain class of whites, those who are racist that act this way. I've worked in corporate America for most of my life, most of my bosses/supervisors especially in the begining were white men and several of them were mentors to me. None of them were the least bit intimidated by me or the fact that I was learning from them.

The reactions you've describing are those of people who are insecure and when they start talking shit about calling the police for things that are not a crime, then you know that you've struck a nerve. That's the last and only racist card that they have to play - siccing the police on you.

Um well, I wish some Black people would contradict and confront white people face-to-face, person-to-person, when problems arise, especially in the schools. Instead what some seem prone to do is....call the local news. I mean as first resort, do not seek a solution with the teacher, principal or admin.... call the news. That's not looking in the eye.

So many of us oftentimes do not have the luxury of placing our livlihoods in jeopardy merely to stand up for ourselves and our rights. We've all seen have that movie always ends.

The reason some people go straight to the press is because nothing really happens when they file a complaint with the offending agency/entity, etc. It's sort of like filing a complaint against the police and then having the officers buddy's investigate it - who do you think they're going to side with? Exposure or the threat thereof is oftentimes the only thing that motivates an adverse party to take a complaint seriously.

I can understand that--I can. But from our point of view, it breaks down trust. We are trying to build trust and solve problems together. Taking the issue to the press, when you have not even given the teacher/admin/school board an opportunity TO solve the problem first, ruins the trust that could have been built by attempting to solve the problem--by looking each other in the eye to do that.

It's too bad, because often it's just coming at the issue from different viewpoints, etc. Or miscommunication, or a thousand other things. Most parents and most teachers really do want what's best for children. When we work together, we make an even better team for the child involved. Anyway that's how most of us see it.

 

[007]

So I go to this gym for like 5 years in a place where all the celebrities and athkeests and rappers live in la. Basically it's a community center with a gym and basketball courts and shit.

Anyway im Armenian but my skin tone is that of a really light skinned brother

So I hit up my gym after a few absent weeks and this Older white lady and the manager who's also white and for years always talked down to me and just was plain weird and I could tell she was just racist.

Anyway my card had been declined for the month and I took an uber to get there cu my whip in the shop.

Anyway she declined again for the 3rd time to let me in for the day instead of dropping $10 as I didn't have cash or card on me anyway to use the gym and pay the membership next time I came in.

I've seen them find ways to let white kids in when they have similar issues but not me and they always be talking to me in such a racist tone.. If yall death with racists you know what I mean.

So I said when leaving "sometimes I wish I was white American" and I would have an easier lifeL.. Then she flips out saying what did i say. She then gets angry saying "how dare you call me racist bla bla" saying I pulled the race card. She then points finger at me, the even more racist manager gets in my face and goes crazy too. Mind you in a 5 year long customer.. I'm like I didn't call you racist or imply it and know you're not, so why you getting all angry if you aren't. She just goes crazy threatens to call the cops when I was like I said ok im leaving and started walking away with no comment as soon as you said leave.. But she threatens me while I'm leaving and am by the door "if you don't leave the building in 5 min in calling the police" im like call them im already leaving. Then she goes real crazy and says im "not allowed" to come while she's working there or shell call the cops. I'm like are you fuking serious.. What a joke..

I mean these racists have always hated on me and I told them that they proved my point. How you gonna put words in my mouth and say I called you racist when I didn't and then handle the situation like that and needlessly threaten me and tell me when you work there you'll call the cops if you see me.

These people are a joke. Any brothers and sisters and white people here can confirm that they are racist? First of all I only said I wish i was white American sometimes (and Btw don't get it twisted id Kill myself if I was white oh he'll no I love being darker skinned makes my strength, spirit, love, energy, and confidence so much higher naturally)...but if someone isn't racist shouldn't they just be chill and calm and say "no its just policy it's not about race" and just be calm. The fact they flipped out and threatened cops over a belief I made and never insulted them even and went so crazy just proved my point and I even told them.

Anyone else agree or know what I'm talking about or been through this? Would yall agree she took it too far, or was clearly racist or would yall say I was wrong about what I said?

Sorry... BRO... but your story is a total steaming pile of BULL SHIT.

Maybe you can try it again on another board where people are more gullible.

I imagine you got BANNED from where ever you came from for spreading CRAP.

 

[NewsVine_Mariyam]

I can understand that--I can. But from our point of view, it breaks down trust. We are trying to build trust and solve problems together. Taking the issue to the press, when you have not even given the teacher/admin/school board an opportunity TO solve the problem first, ruins the trust that could have been built by attempting to solve the problem--by looking each other in the eye to do that.

It's too bad, because often it's just coming at the issue from different viewpoints, etc. Or miscommunication, or a thousand other things. Most parents and most teachers really do want what's best for children. When we work together, we make an even better team for the child involved. Anyway that's how most of us see it.

I agree with your sentiment but I am here to tell you the reality is a whole lot different and lot more nastier and cut-throat.

I've developed a methodology for documenting these types of complaints and gathering the evidence to support and prove the underlying claim and believe me, communicating with the company directly about your complaint is the very last step so that in case they decide to retaliate against, sometimes for the purpose of cuting off your access to the documentation that will prove your case against them, you or your investigator will already have the needed evidence.

I'd much rather resolve things than fight any day of the week and I am all for open and honest communications but some of these people act as if they're in a fight for their life - they cannot accept that they are wrong about ANYTHING therefore they will lie and deflect and coverup and threaten and retaliate even if all the complaintant is doing is asking questions or for clarification on a specific matter. In other words their reactions are generally 'how DARE you!' as they go off the deep end. The original offense may not have even been that big of a deal but once they start retaliating, that IS a big deal.

 

[SweetSue92]

I can understand that--I can. But from our point of view, it breaks down trust. We are trying to build trust and solve problems together. Taking the issue to the press, when you have not even given the teacher/admin/school board an opportunity TO solve the problem first, ruins the trust that could have been built by attempting to solve the problem--by looking each other in the eye to do that.

It's too bad, because often it's just coming at the issue from different viewpoints, etc. Or miscommunication, or a thousand other things. Most parents and most teachers really do want what's best for children. When we work together, we make an even better team for the child involved. Anyway that's how most of us see it.

I agree with your sentiment but I am here to tell you the reality is a whole lot different and lot more nastier and cut-throat.

I've developed a methodology for documenting these types of complaints and gathering the evidence to support and prove the underlying claim and believe me, communicating with the company directly about your complaint is the very last step so that in case they decide to retaliate against, sometimes for the purpose of cuting off your access to the documentation that will prove your case against them, you or your investigator will already have the needed evidence.

I'd much rather resolve things than fight any day of the week and I am all for open and honest communications but some of these people act as if they're in a fight for their life - they cannot accept that they are wrong about ANYTHING therefore they will lie and deflect and coverup and threaten and retaliate even if all the complaintant is doing is asking questions or for clarification on a specific matter. In other words their reactions are generally 'how DARE you!' as they go off the deep end. The original offense may not have even been that big of a deal but once they start retaliating, that IS a big deal.

I can see that too. I'm an honest person. So probably sometimes not to my benefit I tend to think others are honest around me. But some people, I think, would rather die than admit they're wrong, even if bridges could be built or at least mended if they would. I hate it when people cannot admit they're wrong; I think it comes from being a teacher for so many years. Being wrong and fixing the mistake is where the most learning happens. But I digress.

The problem I see around me, however, is this: we have lost our sense of community because no one trusts each other. Distrust, dishonesty, self-interest, etc reign. And so in all of the above, I don't know how we get back to the sense of even local community you used to find in neighborhoods, at least. I'm not sure we can.

 

[boedicca]

So I go to this gym for like 5 years in a place where all the celebrities and athkeests and rappers live in la. Basically it's a community center with a gym and basketball courts and shit.

Anyway im Armenian but my skin tone is that of a really light skinned brother

So I hit up my gym after a few absent weeks and this Older white lady and the manager who's also white and for years always talked down to me and just was plain weird and I could tell she was just racist.

Anyway my card had been declined for the month and I took an uber to get there cu my whip in the shop.

Anyway she declined again for the 3rd time to let me in for the day instead of dropping $10 as I didn't have cash or card on me anyway to use the gym and pay the membership next time I came in.

I've seen them find ways to let white kids in when they have similar issues but not me and they always be talking to me in such a racist tone.. If yall death with racists you know what I mean.

So I said when leaving "sometimes I wish I was white American" and I would have an easier lifeL.. Then she flips out saying what did i say. She then gets angry saying "how dare you call me racist bla bla" saying I pulled the race card. She then points finger at me, the even more racist manager gets in my face and goes crazy too. Mind you in a 5 year long customer.. I'm like I didn't call you racist or imply it and know you're not, so why you getting all angry if you aren't. She just goes crazy threatens to call the cops when I was like I said ok im leaving and started walking away with no comment as soon as you said leave.. But she threatens me while I'm leaving and am by the door "if you don't leave the building in 5 min in calling the police" im like call them im already leaving. Then she goes real crazy and says im "not allowed" to come while she's working there or shell call the cops. I'm like are you fuking serious.. What a joke..

I mean these racists have always hated on me and I told them that they proved my point. How you gonna put words in my mouth and say I called you racist when I didn't and then handle the situation like that and needlessly threaten me and tell me when you work there you'll call the cops if you see me.

These people are a joke. Any brothers and sisters and white people here can confirm that they are racist? First of all I only said I wish i was white American sometimes (and Btw don't get it twisted id Kill myself if I was white oh he'll no I love being darker skinned makes my strength, spirit, love, energy, and confidence so much higher naturally)...but if someone isn't racist shouldn't they just be chill and calm and say "no its just policy it's not about race" and just be calm. The fact they flipped out and threatened cops over a belief I made and never insulted them even and went so crazy just proved my point and I even told them.

Anyone else agree or know what I'm talking about or been through this? Would yall agree she took it too far, or was clearly racist or would yall say I was wrong about what I said?

So, you didn't have money and your credit card was declined?

Got it. You're a scamming deadbeat looking for a free ride. This has nothing to do with racism.

Oh look. A typical racist white response. You literally ignore everything and cherry picked one thing and completely and purposely missed the point..it appears you don't understand the fact my card was declined because I had replaced it and I wasn't aware of that. I also didn't bring money as I didn't feel I need to bring any as I thought I had a membership.

Let's say I was scamming. You don't call the white kids deadbeat when they are getting free Entrances for having the same situation I did. Why didn't you focus oN calling out her letting whites in for being in the same situation versus me?

Lol you call me deadbeat? I'll bet anything I pay more in tax each year Than you you make in a year pussy

It is a truth universally acknowledged that people who brag on the interwebs that they make more money than do anonymous people about whom they have zero knowledge are Epic Losers.

Furthermore, people who are constantly looking for micro-aggressions and signs of racism are mentally and emotionally stunted.

And Furthermost - what a sad little noob you are.

Grow up.

 

[boedicca]

So, you didn't have money and your credit card was declined?

Got it. You're a scamming deadbeat looking for a free ride. This has nothing to do with racism.

I'm still trying to figure out why has a whip. Who the fuck needs a whip?

Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy: A Dominatrix.

 

[dave p]

So I go to this gym for like 5 years in a place where all the celebrities and athkeests and rappers live in la. Basically it's a community center with a gym and basketball courts and shit.

Anyway im Armenian but my skin tone is that of a really light skinned brother

So I hit up my gym after a few absent weeks and this Older white lady and the manager who's also white and for years always talked down to me and just was plain weird and I could tell she was just racist.

Anyway my card had been declined for the month and I took an uber to get there cu my whip in the shop.

Anyway she declined again for the 3rd time to let me in for the day instead of dropping $10 as I didn't have cash or card on me anyway to use the gym and pay the membership next time I came in.

I've seen them find ways to let white kids in when they have similar issues but not me and they always be talking to me in such a racist tone.. If yall death with racists you know what I mean.

So I said when leaving "sometimes I wish I was white American" and I would have an easier lifeL.. Then she flips out saying what did i say. She then gets angry saying "how dare you call me racist bla bla" saying I pulled the race card. She then points finger at me, the even more racist manager gets in my face and goes crazy too. Mind you in a 5 year long customer.. I'm like I didn't call you racist or imply it and know you're not, so why you getting all angry if you aren't. She just goes crazy threatens to call the cops when I was like I said ok im leaving and started walking away with no comment as soon as you said leave.. But she threatens me while I'm leaving and am by the door "if you don't leave the building in 5 min in calling the police" im like call them im already leaving. Then she goes real crazy and says im "not allowed" to come while she's working there or shell call the cops. I'm like are you fuking serious.. What a joke..

I mean these racists have always hated on me and I told them that they proved my point. How you gonna put words in my mouth and say I called you racist when I didn't and then handle the situation like that and needlessly threaten me and tell me when you work there you'll call the cops if you see me.

These people are a joke. Any brothers and sisters and white people here can confirm that they are racist? First of all I only said I wish i was white American sometimes (and Btw don't get it twisted id Kill myself if I was white oh he'll no I love being darker skinned makes my strength, spirit, love, energy, and confidence so much higher naturally)...but if someone isn't racist shouldn't they just be chill and calm and say "no its just policy it's not about race" and just be calm. The fact they flipped out and threatened cops over a belief I made and never insulted them even and went so crazy just proved my point and I even told them.

Anyone else agree or know what I'm talking about or been through this? Would yall agree she took it too far, or was clearly racist or would yall say I was wrong about what I said?

So, you didn't have money and your credit card was declined?

Got it. You're a scamming deadbeat looking for a free ride. This has nothing to do with racism.

Oh look. A typical racist white response. You literally ignore everything and cherry picked one thing and completely and purposely missed the point..it appears you don't understand the fact my card was declined because I had replaced it and I wasn't aware of that. I also didn't bring money as I didn't feel I need to bring any as I thought I had a membership.

Let's say I was scamming. You don't call the white kids deadbeat when they are getting free Entrances for having the same situation I did. Why didn't you focus oN calling out her letting whites in for being in the same situation versus me?

Lol you call me deadbeat? I'll bet anything I pay more in tax each year Than you you make in a year pussy

Mainly bra cause this is your story and no one knows if it is true. Most likely it isn’t. You didn’t have a card , you had no money. Suck it up.

 

[dave p]

So I go to this gym for like 5 years in a place where all the celebrities and athkeests and rappers live in la. Basically it's a community center with a gym and basketball courts and shit.

Anyway im Armenian but my skin tone is that of a really light skinned brother

So I hit up my gym after a few absent weeks and this Older white lady and the manager who's also white and for years always talked down to me and just was plain weird and I could tell she was just racist.

Anyway my card had been declined for the month and I took an uber to get there cu my whip in the shop.

Anyway she declined again for the 3rd time to let me in for the day instead of dropping $10 as I didn't have cash or card on me anyway to use the gym and pay the membership next time I came in.

I've seen them find ways to let white kids in when they have similar issues but not me and they always be talking to me in such a racist tone.. If yall death with racists you know what I mean.

So I said when leaving "sometimes I wish I was white American" and I would have an easier lifeL.. Then she flips out saying what did i say. She then gets angry saying "how dare you call me racist bla bla" saying I pulled the race card. She then points finger at me, the even more racist manager gets in my face and goes crazy too. Mind you in a 5 year long customer.. I'm like I didn't call you racist or imply it and know you're not, so why you getting all angry if you aren't. She just goes crazy threatens to call the cops when I was like I said ok im leaving and started walking away with no comment as soon as you said leave.. But she threatens me while I'm leaving and am by the door "if you don't leave the building in 5 min in calling the police" im like call them im already leaving. Then she goes real crazy and says im "not allowed" to come while she's working there or shell call the cops. I'm like are you fuking serious.. What a joke..

I mean these racists have always hated on me and I told them that they proved my point. How you gonna put words in my mouth and say I called you racist when I didn't and then handle the situation like that and needlessly threaten me and tell me when you work there you'll call the cops if you see me.

These people are a joke. Any brothers and sisters and white people here can confirm that they are racist? First of all I only said I wish i was white American sometimes (and Btw don't get it twisted id Kill myself if I was white oh he'll no I love being darker skinned makes my strength, spirit, love, energy, and confidence so much higher naturally)...but if someone isn't racist shouldn't they just be chill and calm and say "no its just policy it's not about race" and just be calm. The fact they flipped out and threatened cops over a belief I made and never insulted them even and went so crazy just proved my point and I even told them.

Anyone else agree or know what I'm talking about or been through this? Would yall agree she took it too far, or was clearly racist or would yall say I was wrong about what I said?

Sorry... BRO... but your story is a total steaming pile of BULL SHIT.

Maybe you can try it again on another board where people are more gullible.
I imagine you got BANNED from where ever you came from for spreading CRAP.

Considering he changes from white to black, depending on the point he wants to make in his posts. You can’t believe anything he says

 

[Asclepias]

So, you didn't have money and your credit card was declined?

Got it. You're a scamming deadbeat looking for a free ride. This has nothing to do with racism.

I'm still trying to figure out why has a whip. Who the fuck needs a whip?

Its a Black thing. It means a car.